2006-10-25 02:26:12 · 21 answers · asked by carolbazaya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
put a stop to it RIGHT AWAY!!!
2006-10-25 02:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by ginger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're probably ******* my friend. You need to get them both in check. Or at least find out exactly what is going on. And don't settle for the first thing they decide to tell you, that's obviously a lie. But don't press it too hard either. But I would say that the boyfriend is more the problem than the bestfriend because more than likely he's given her a reason to constantly call and text him the way she does.
2006-10-25 09:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it that best friend is a girl.
Well, I agree that she has no business texting your boyfriend. Unless they were friends before, and even so, she should appreciate that it's not appropriate.
You should have a word with both of them separately, and for good measure ask your boyfriend to either ignore her messages, or ask him to tell her to stop.
You are not being paranoid; It's simply not appropriate, and I'm sure that friend of yours is not stupid, but her game is.
The other to look at it is if your boyfriend's best friend or just friend were doing the same with you, I am pretty sure that he wouldn't like it and you would have probably felf embarrassed or worse.
So, yes, it's worth do something about it.
Good luck.x
2006-10-25 10:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to confront your friend with this. It seems to me that she is over stepping her boundaries. First of all how does your boyfriend feel about this? A person can only do what someone allows them to. You need to make sure that your boyfriend isnt giving her the impression that it is ok. If hes not and she doesnt respect your wishes you need to dump her, because if she is doing this to you there is no telling of what she may be capable of.
2006-10-25 10:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by cmkp2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear about this, ive been in this postion and i was very upset on how it was going to turn out. If your friend is constantly calling and txting your bf and your worried that she might be trying to steal him.
The best thing to do is talk to her and tell her that its bothering you, and if she carries on she is NOT a true friend! Dont worry thought, hopefully if she knows its bothering you she will stop!
Also talk to your bf about it, or get another 1 of your friends to talk 2 him! You cant let them carry on!
Tell me how it works out
Luvya xxxx
2006-10-25 10:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by sexii_gangsta_baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her what is going on? if shes your best friend as you say , you'll know that shes lying, then i would confront him too.!!! A woman's intuition never lies its a 6th sense. Either way you look at it its a total disrespect on their behalf. I don't know how old you are but at my age once I'm done investigating and i find out their screwing hes getting his a-- whooped for being dirty and shes getting her a-- whooped for the principle of the matter not for the guy. cause Men are dogs anyway. good-luck!!!!
2006-10-25 09:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by free2lovebadboyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell it straight but in a cool way " If you weren't my best mate with all this texting and phone calls id think you were having an affair with my boyfriend, lucky were mates coz mates don't do that" or say something along those lines, good luck
2006-10-25 10:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by scooby/et 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start to get worried is this the type of behaviour that you would expect of your best friend.
Do you know this person at all does she expect to share everything with you including your boyfriend.
Perhaps you need to have words with her and put her right.
2006-10-25 09:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by jean811823 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does that have to mean something is going on? i mean i know that one of my best mates and i love the same guy...she has been out with him...i havent....while she was going out with him i would text him or call him....but nothing was ever bad about it...is it possible that they could just be really good mates? fair enough if your worried about it ask your friend...if something is going on then it needs to be sorted out...and if not at least your mind is settled...talking is the best way
2006-10-25 17:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by littlequells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends....is your boyfriend txting her back?have u seen any of the texts?
If its upsetting you drop into conversation that your bf mentioned she was txing him the other nite and the fact that she knows you know mite make her back off!
or u cud just ask her straight out whats she at?
2006-10-25 09:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by LadyT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the thing is , how come your boyfriend hasn't put a stop to it yet? i would try to have him too since it is your best friend and if u want to keep her your best friend then it would be better if your bf tells her to stop but if he doesn't then u should definately make her stop
2006-10-25 09:31:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋