I was in a previous relationship with a man.I have 5 boys from him.He would never buy nothing for the kids nor give me money for them.If I got money from him to buy the kids something I had to pay him back.Left him and met the man of my dreams.We have a 23 month old together plus he claims my 5 others as his own.My husband buys the kids(all 6 of them) all of their needs.I thank him everytime he buys for them.Im very grateful for him.He tells me to stop thanking him because thats what a husband does.He is a over the road truck driver.Called me last night telling me he got my oldest sons shoes,the youngest a few outfits and my other child his holloween costume.Something these kids needed.I thanked him.Well heard the same from him again about thanking him.How do you not thank someone when you are so grateful for everything they do?If I stopped thanking him wont he think I dont appreciate the things he does?The father does nothing for the 5 kids.Not even child support so yeah Im very thank
2006-10-25
01:09:28
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When he comes home for home time he cleans,cooks and washes,drys anf fold the clothes,I thank him and he says stop thanking me.When he`s home Im not allowed to do a thing.He even tends to all 6 of the kids ages 16,15,14,10,9 and 23 months old.
2006-10-25
01:11:28 ·
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All 6 of the kids are boys.Very active boys.So any help I get in guiding them in the right direction Im thankful for.
2006-10-25
01:15:30 ·
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Ok people I just want to say of course I show my appreciation in other ways.Sex is not one of them.Sex comes natural and only a whore would trade sex for things thats done for her or given to her.
2006-10-25
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Have you explained to him that you are just so grateful that you want to thank him for all the nice things he does? And that it makes YOU feel better to say thank you. Maybe he is just embarassed by all the praise because he doesn't feel like he is doing anything beyond what he feels he should be doing. Just talk to him and let him know that you want to thank him and that it makes you feel better. I am sure he will understand where you are coming from.
2006-10-25 01:15:04
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answered by ? 3
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I think you should let him know that you appreciate it in other ways like when he is home make him breaky in bed but make it a smiley face (doesnt matter what it is just work with it), buy some sexy clothes and underware tease him a little and then please him to the fullest, write him a love sog with everything you want to say to him in it Or you could just tell him how much you appreciate it and that you love him. As for your boys i am the oldest (19) of 5 younger brothers(3) and sisters(2). (i have just moved back home to mum and dads with my 5 month old daughter coz i found out my boyfriend was seeing someone else after 6 years together). They are 18, 17, 16, 14 & 7 and they are all brats & they dont care about things that are important now but when your boys get older they will know what your husband has done for them and they will appreciate it and be thankfull that the sperm doner is out of the picture if you ask me i think you are a very lucky women and i hope that in time i find someone to treat me and my little girl like that. All the best...
2006-10-25 01:44:32
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answered by Anonymous
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2016-09-01 02:22:57
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answered by brickman 4
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Thank him by loving him. You are so lucky to find someone that cares that much for you and your children. Actions always speak louder than words so if you just give hime a big hug and kiss everytime you walk by him I am sure that you will get your message across without having to say the words over and over again.
2006-10-25 01:27:46
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answered by movingal234 1
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Just so him love. Thanking your husband doesn't mean saying thank you all the time. That makes it seem like he's just someone who's around and their helping you out. He's doing what he's suppossed to, just like he said. The way a woman can thank a man that does everything for her is to return the favor. Have hot meals ready for him when he comes home, show him affection, and just be there whenever he needs anything. That's how you say thank you to a good husband.
2006-10-25 01:16:56
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answered by DJ 5
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So exactly what's the question? It sounds like you've hit the jack pot. Don't say thank you. Next time just give him a big sloppy kiss and hug, and tell him how much he means to you. Don't ever let him feel as though you're taking advantage of him. Congratulations on finding a good one.
2006-10-25 01:16:19
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answered by bookfreak2day 6
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I guess you can show how ur thanks through other ways.... like cooking his fav dinner when ever he is home,or a suprise weekend away orjust making him feel special all teh time.... makign sure the kids understand what he is doing and they appreciate and learn to love him ...
Good luck & God Bless... hope u have a wonderful future with this good man
2006-10-25 01:15:09
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answered by Princess 2
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Maybe you could change your tactics? Instead of thanking him, tell him he is the greatest many in in the world? Or how lucky you are to have him. At least he wouldn't have an argument there! lol Sounds like he's a hell of a guy, you are very lucky.
2006-10-25 01:52:02
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answered by tonka 2
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There r other ways to thank ur husband. when he does something u like just give him a long kiss.and u can make his fav. whenever he is at home.Congrates for a good one
2006-10-25 01:33:03
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answered by himani j 1
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just be there for him. you don`t get like those anywhere ...
I am that type so i can tell you that.I took in three kids with a older woman whose last husband turned to drugs...
the relationship has been amazing..
2006-10-25 01:20:22
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answered by anything goes 2
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