ok here is the thing, I work at a factor in the office and there is a very nice guy that works in the factor. He is really not might type and way to sweet just to blow him off. Everyday he stands over me like he wants to ask me out but is to shy to do so, almost as if he wants me to make the first move. There is a social party on halloween and he is telling the other boys in the factory that he is only going to see me. I have to go to the party. The question FINALLY is how should I tell him if and/or when he asks me??????
Although he is very sweet what I mean by not my type is he never shaves, clothes always have holes in them even when he is off, doesnt look like he has washed his hair/clothes/self in quite a while but he is very sweet.
I really need a guys opinion on how you would like to be let down w/ out making work wierd.
2006-10-25 01:04:14 · 7 answers · asked by smbrennan24 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
O.k>,you need A woman,s advice,Not man,Because I,ve been in the sak same sitution,You want to tell him that ,"That is very sweet of you dear,But I was hurt Really-Really BAD a year ago,And right now in my life,All I want is Male friends,Not boyfriends,but Thank you so much,Your such A nice Guy and a wicket Sweet heart!someday Your gona make some Lucky woman Happy!There you let him down in a kind way,Like its not you,Its me,And you will have complamented him on what a great person he is!Also you may want to add,"But,i REALLY_REALLY like you as a good friend and I hope this won,t change our friendsip because I look at you as my big BrotherType"!And giggle and give he,s arm a little Sqiuzz,smile and Walk away!that way he,ll still be happy he has you as a friend!Good Luck,HollywoodP.S. Me and that person are good friends today,and that was 7 yrs, ago!
2006-10-25 01:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by hollywood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Love Your Name BTW.
I would just tell him he is tooooooooo sweet of a guy to get involved w/ someone like me. It wouldn't be a perfect match.
2006-10-25 08:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by anitababy.brainwash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The classic. I'm not ready for a relationship right now. Don't be mean and be careful.
2006-10-25 08:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honesty. You're just not interested and honesty will leave no questions.
2006-10-25 08:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you r sorry but you only wanna be friends write know and that you need a little time alone
2006-10-25 08:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely don't blow him off, you'll be sending mixed signals.
2006-10-25 08:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by people are scum 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him your on your period and then say "Get the funk out!"
2006-10-25 08:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋