My girlfriend broke up with me because she was/is seeing someone else. its been almost 10 years now with our relationship..every time she lied to me from last 2 years..i love her and cant live without her..I feel hurt and betrayed..i dont know i might end my life or go crazy if these things continue. what should i do? can anybody help me out please?
2006-10-25 00:51:46 · 11 answers · asked by Raj B 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Maybe you became a mindless partner while you were with her!
Did you lose the sparkle in your eye every time you looked at her?
Did you forgot to tell her how smart and beautiful she is?
Did you take her out to discover new and exciting things together?
Did you talk to her about your day and the events in your daily life?
Did you keep her on the edge of passion and lust for life?
She must have found all those things in someone else, someone
who is not a mindless partner. Maybe she felt betrayed by you for not being the man she first fell in love with anymore. The only advice I can give you now is get yourself together and keep eating healthy. Sometimes the best revenge is to live well--physical and mentally!
2006-10-25 01:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a decent chap, things will get better! I promise you!
Time is a great healer, she will realize at some point that she has done wrong and you will realize that you got away from the evil skank. you may not feel this at the moment or even for a little while longer, but you will.
Get your life back in order, get your friends back pour yourself into your work, keep busy, its the quiet times that will really effect you so do keep busy!!
You do not need that negative force in your life, Karma will seek her out and while that is happening Karma will reward you.
Remember that6 you are one of God's children (whichever god it may be) and he loves you as does alot of other people if you really think about it!
Time will heal all, I am now in a relationship with a woman that loves me and I love her and the feelings that i have now out way the relationship that I had with the ***** I used to see.
I hope that peace will find you, Go get drunk and think of all of the positives that are in front of you!
2006-10-25 01:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch her and get over it. she's not worth it and you deserve better. She obviously doesn't care about you so stop deluding yourself that if you did everything she wanted that all will be well.
she'll do it again. i promise.
my husband's ex was married when he met her so she was cheating on her husband at the time. she divorced him, married my husband and guess what? cheated on him several times too. so... it is not worth going crazy for because you will only hurt yourself over and over again and life is too darn short to make things that don't make us happy.
life goes on. it will hurt for a while and you will have a rough time but believe me it is true what they say that time heals all wounds. I was married for 7 seven years to an abusive guy and woke up one day and told myself... this is not the life I want for myself. there has to be something better for me out there. i got out and never looked back. I did not ever think that no one else will care about me and I have four kids!
you'll meet someone else. I did and it is wonderful. this one is just not it so don't waste your time. stay strong and believe in yourself. show her what she threw away. the best way to get back is to show her that you came out better without her.
good luck and keep your head up to the skies.
2006-10-25 01:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by special girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call a crisis line NOW.
Yes, it hurts....bad. Been there and didn't think I'd be about to go on. I did. That was 4 years ago and God has now blessed me with a wonderful, God-fearing man.
No one is worth taking your life for.
I will pray for you!
2006-10-25 00:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sounds of your relationship you're really not living with her
sure you love her but she's also a familiar habit, , you need to break away and find a healthy relationship
taking her back and being a push over will only enable her actions
how could you trust her after all of this?
you don't need it, , it will take time but it's worth it
2006-10-25 00:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first wife walked out on me, best thing that ever happened. There is a whole word out there. Go and find somebody worthy of you. I did, we have been married for 17 years, and have a wonderful son.
2006-10-25 00:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all though its tough, ACCEPT IT THAT SHE HAS LEFT, there are good & understanding people out there who care for you. locate them. do not linger onto the thoughts of what has happened. we create our own circumstances. so u choose to lead a fresh life this moment on or stay with the thoughts of the person who is unfaithful. decision is yours cos u know the consequences of your choice
2006-10-25 00:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by kicchi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why hadn't you married her after 10 years? What sort of a relationship was this? You sound really weak and dependent and she probably has contempt for you. How can she help it? Get a clue, man.
2006-10-25 00:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its very hard but you should try and forget her and move on. Best way of getting over someone is to get with someone else. Good luck
2006-10-25 00:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by pinky perky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there. It'll get better. Really. I'll pray for you. Hang with friends. Don't listen to sad music or reminders of your ex.
Email me anytime.
2006-10-25 00:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋