Sometimes after giving birth to children,parent seperate themselves and i think they do so without caring about the effect of this action ,on the innocent minds .Do the children change their parents?Why divorce then?How the children feel such situations?
2006-10-25 00:13:47 · 9 answers · asked by agni 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What ever happens between the couple is a personal issue, sometimes ends up in hatred, and divorce is inevitable. On the other hand, if they discuss their differences and realize that they both are not happy with one another, and they just cannot live together anymore, sometimes people don't divorce. My parents split when I was a junior in high school (I'm now 47, and my parents are since deceased). Never the less, divorce or separation will usually always have some impact on the children, but it is not a good idea to stay together just for them....it makes for a stressful and unhappy home for them. I know for a fact, if my parents stayed together, it would have been hell. They fought constantly!
2006-10-25 00:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by LARGE MARGE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think parents when they have children can sometimes react differently to the change which can produce a cycle of events and actions that makes the marriage crumble. I think they divorce because the damage is too much that the relationship can't be salvaged, maybe too many things and words can't be taken back. Children probably feel that its sort of their fault or that they have to take sides...divorce should be the last option or not an option at all if it doesn't involve abuse or adultery.
2006-10-25 07:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r so right.... once u bring someone into the world u r entirely responsible for that person's upbringing.....
but...
what if u realize that the person u r living with is not right for u... is it not better to go ur separate ways and give each other a chance to find people who would give them happiness..
children are no doubt important but what good would it do them to see their parents abusing each other.... or being cruel to each other... in all this children will suffer more and in the long run they might wish that their parents had separated.
divorce does not have to mean end of relation b/w the parents and children... just a turn to a bad situation!
2006-10-25 07:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by silverfox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people just don't get along sometimes, making it better to separate (for the kids).
Some people r just selfish. They get scared after they have children, and want to run from the responsibility or want to recapture their youth and not grow up.
There are many different reasons why parents separate and depending on how it is handled it can be a positive or a negative for the children. IMO
2006-10-25 07:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is what happens when people marry for frivolous reasons, when they don't have proper and long engagements.
Divorce is to easy to get, marriage is no longer respected for the commitment it is supposed to be. There are a lot of other answers to marital problems than dropping your pants and climbing into bed with someone new. (This applies to both sexes)
The bleeding heart liberals over the last 40 years have taken God out of the classroom. Loyalty, respect, and patriotism are no longer being taught. Hell, proper spelling and English are a thing of the past.
Till death do us part has no meaning anymore, commitment has no meaning, and fidelity has no meaning to a huge majority of people.
2006-10-25 07:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is better for the child for the parents to divorce. If for the next 18 years the parents are fighting constantly, how do you think the child would feel? They would blame themselves for their parents unhappiness. Divorce has been happening for centuries, children have always adjusted.
2006-10-25 07:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by big_dee1984 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What would you have, two unhappy parents living together for the sake of children? What sort of upbringing can they give the kids when they are living in misery.
It is best to divorce and then either can have visiting rights and make kids happy in their own way.
2006-10-25 07:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by ashok kumar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is better for two people to bring up the children it separate households that are happy, than be in a situation where you are together but miserable, kids are not stupid, they pick up on such things and it damages them.
2006-10-25 07:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REALLY IT IS DISHEARTENING WHEN PEOPLE SEPERATE,AND NOBODY CAN ANSWER BETTER THEN THE ONE HAS WITNESSED IT.
2006-10-25 07:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by saffron 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋