They are loyal and good wives. Very caring mother's, yet there seems so much of unfulfilled longing.
2006-10-25 00:08:15 · 8 answers · asked by 40andgoing 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take it for granted. That is what we do with our romantic love after few years of marriage. The relationship comes on a platter and there is no excitement left. It all becomes dull and boring with no surprises left. Love is killed, the adrenalin that flew is no more there and life is as usual. Is this the kind of life you expected to live after falling in love and getting married to your darling? That was never expected, but somehow things came to that. No one desires a dull existence without any spark in life. The trouble is that most of us don't wish to do anything about this. What can be done? Here are few ideas.
The main element to bring spark in a dead life is surprise. Do something that is unexpected by your spouse. No, we do not refer to anything shocking, but anything that brings joy to your spouse. Instead of calling on phone about something, what if you send a note full of love? Many a times, we remind our spouses about doing something. How about writing that with love pouring in and sending a quick love note. A reminder to go to a dentist can also be made to sound romantic. Try this - sweetheart, you have an appointment with that dreaded dentist's chair today. Please don't forget, because after you return from the dentist your smile will mesmerize me more and your laughter will make my heart miss a beat.
Send a bouquet with a love note. Let it be any day. Need not be a birthday or an anniversary. But any ordinary day. The bouquet will bring a big smile on the face of your sweetheart. How about throwing a surprise holiday in life? No planning together. Do everything on your own and announce on the day of departure. What do you think will be the reaction of your spouse to this? Be creative and think of doing things that will bring a surprising cheer and joy.
When was it last, that you admired your spouse for his/her physical beauty? You did that a lot during your romancing days, isn't it? Now it has all stopped. Why not begin it with new fervor and show appreciation and admiration in words as many times as possible. Make the spouse feel good and worthy. Make him/her feel worthy and being loved. All of us are facing many problems in our day to day life. Small gestures that bring the romance back will surely make the burden of life feel little lighter.
2006-10-25 00:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by ashok kumar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm happily married, and I'm not unfulfilled. if someone's happily married, their lives can't be unfulfilled. Maybe that's just your pervy brain wanting to get into the pants of those happily married women.
2006-10-25 00:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can u say happily married and unfulfilled all in one sentence? Obviously if they are happily married then they are fulfilled in all ways. Your question is a contradiction.
2006-10-25 00:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is one major fault in all us humand. We are NEVER satisfied with all the wonderful things we have, and are always looking for something more (greed). Once we lose what we have, then we woefully regret our greed, and want things to go back to the way it was. This rarely, if ever happens, because of betrayal.
2006-10-25 00:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All is OK yet for their lust mskr them long. See the animals are difficult to be confined to one their lust attracts leads them to others. It appears the said good wives see soft pieces of chiken in others' plates ignoring full chicken in their own plate.
2006-10-25 00:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
happily married but longing for the most unlikely men? then HELLO they aren't happily married!
2006-10-25 00:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have thought that I asked that question. I am one of those women and I wish I could explain the answer to you, but it's one I am looking for myself! I will be watching your answers.
2006-10-25 00:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by Collared 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably mid-life crisis.
2006-10-25 00:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by No Name Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋