2006-10-24 23:28:54 · 13 answers · asked by afrinista10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him straight out.....but im a believer of look at the menu as long as you eat at home......
its better that he does it infront of you rather than behind your back.....
if you bring it to his attention and he doesnt change his way then that would be a lack of respect and a sign that he doesnt love you as much as you think he does....
2006-10-24 23:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exacty that. Tell him that you don't like his flirting around because it makes you feel less appreciated and it can give the impression that he's not that into you as much as he says he is. Also, tell him that other women may think or assume that what the two of you have is nothing serious or you two aren't even together and thats not the case is it? If another woman assumes that it could damage the relationship you two have or embarass yourselves and that woman as well. Tell him that youre right there anyway, so why not flirt with you instead of other women? its gonna be fine. Don't worry.
2006-10-25 06:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay down the law before he realises that his behaivour is acceptable. Just tell him that his flirting with other people makes you uncomfortable and that you want him to stop. In this case, honesty is the best policy. Good Luck :)
2006-10-25 06:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and have a heartfelt talk about his actions. Work it out. Communication is what keeps a relationship going. Gd Luck
2006-10-25 06:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him that..
then
direct, straight forward, honestly and caring,
I believe,
is best.
Most of my friends are women!!!
when I can't get rid of a stalker type or a gold digger type, too arogant to listen to me, too needy, too clingy, drama queen, etc,
well
we go to my group of friends...
she is usually gone before too long
or
she is ok with my friends,,,
and
There is a new person in my group of friends..
that
may become more than that.
.
.
hm....
.
.
2006-10-25 06:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok explain to him that it hurts you and that if he wouldnt mind intoducing you to all his women mates and you dont mind him talkin 2 women because you cant stop him socilising and if he inroduces u to them u cn all be mates and nothing will happen between ur boyfriend and the women because the women would no he had a girlfriend good luck babe and im afraid if he says no he isnt the one for you xx
2006-10-25 06:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by ..x..blue.eyed.princess..x.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot change this manner in a human because this is based on a person's Instinct,therefore you shuold leave him to punish him,because men need women so.
2006-10-25 06:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by hamid khalili 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, sweetie but don't think for one minute that he is going to change. You need to either accept who he is and his personality or find another boyfriend who will meet your needs. Sounds like this relationship is doomed anyway.
2006-10-25 06:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mine is too. maybe they could be friends lol. i tell him that it hurts me and he stops doing 'that' thing. like going to that place, or seeing that one girl. but i dont think i stopped him. i would just tell him though, tell him that it upsets you, and he should be checking you out. then give him something to wanna be there for.
2006-10-25 06:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by purple_butterflyuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first tell him that it does, if he is non-responsive to that, just start speaking to all the guys you see while with him, he should get the message.
2006-10-25 06:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by kaviar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋