I tried to get a hold of her over the Internet, and she won;t answer any of my IMs, her voicemail isn't working apparently, when we used to talk she seems shy and rather uninterested, and no matter how hard I try I can seem to get her. Is there a way I can?
Does she hate me? If so, what did I do wrong? I want just to be friends with her, even if not at th romantic level, with is my dream. Change her feelings change if she does hate me? Why would she? I haven't done anything bad to her!!! I really lov her, and I don't want to have to say good bye now...
2006-10-24 23:13:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she isn't interested in you....
2006-10-24 23:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've scared her away bro. From what I can tell you hardly know each other and you've already fallen in love with her. And she DEFINATELY can tell. There's no point saying that you just want to be friends, cause none of us would believe it.
You should have given her more progressive advances rather than going all out. If you wanted to start off as friends first, you don't start off by bludgeoning her with IMs and voicemails.
btw, I don't think you really love her, coz you can't really love someone you don't know. You probably only like the way she looks or the way she acts.
My advice, next time, just ask her out on a date without all that Internet stalker stuff. If she doesn't want to, be a gentleman and don't bit*h about it. Try again next time. And if she sees you're sincere and NOT an obssessed freak, then maybe she might consider getting to know you better.
But I think she already thinks you're an obsessed freak... so... i doubt any tactics would work now.
2006-10-24 23:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by OrdiNance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't persue her to the point you become annoying. You are overdoing it and the more you push the further she is going to back off. Leave her alone for a couple weeks and see if she contacts you. If she doesn't, then you have to accept that she isn't interested and move on.
2006-10-24 23:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off. Back off quietly. She knows how to contact you at this point, and she will if she so wishes. Your insistance upon it is not doing either of you any favors. If she does contact you, be courteous and polite, but not insistant. Do not read too much into it, and keep a respectable distance for a while.
2006-10-24 23:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by Freak Of Nurture 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the harder you try the worse you make it. The only thing you can do is to back off. Let her wonder why you backed off and give her time to miss you alittle. If that doesn't work then I'd say it's time to move on.
2006-10-24 23:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think, it's time for you to move on. if she's interested in you after all the effort you've shown, she might be in love with you now! But suddenly she's not! Just move on and find someone better, God will never leave you empty, he will always replace someone who will make your life happier.
2006-10-24 23:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Junior, take a hint. She is not interested.
2006-10-24 23:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life dude and find someone else. oh here's a tip too, keep some dignity!
2006-10-24 23:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you are clingy and she doesnt like you. She's ignoring you in order to not have to tell you 'piss off'
2006-10-24 23:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by Julio Cesar C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she throw batteries at you? That could be a sign.
2006-10-24 23:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the hint an move on .
2006-10-24 23:15:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋