i am slim 18 years and have curley black hair and skin color is close to white and 5.11 inchs tall (looks dosen't matter) but since my last girlfriend left me 2 years back i am alone and feeling pathetic as all other othe boy,s of my age have there girl friend. what should i do plz help me.
2006-10-24 22:55:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go to college, you get to learn & get laid :)
2006-10-24 22:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once your married, you'll so miss the times you could spend just on your own and wish you'd gone out with as many girls as possible without all the responsibility of dating. I suggest you befriend some girls and then just hang out with them. Don't know why there is so much presure to have a gilrfriend. Just relax and enjoy yourself, focus on girls in 4 or 5 year's time. I never had a boyfriend up to the age of 22, and looking back (I'm 31) it was great, I'll never get that "single" time back, because I'm married now. All the freedom in the world to do whatever you want whenever you want and you are so desperate to give it up just so that you can be like your friends...I'm sure you're gorgeous, don't make an issue out of this...in fact you are the lucky one. ; )
2006-10-25 06:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by mortierella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the way you dress or the way you carry yourself are the reason behind your loneliness. Sometimes even the type of music a guy listens to can be a major turn off. I know that I never look twice at any guy who listens to gangster rap, has any facial hair or piercings, wears "thug" gear, smokes, or curses every other word...there are many things that women find unattractive- you just have to figure out what the women in your area are looking for. Are you employed? Have a vehicle? Did you graduate? All of these things matter...
Best wishes to you.
2006-10-25 06:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 18 and that gives you a better edge than older people. You have everything it takes, the only thing you need to do is to do away with anxiety. Also you need to be focused so as to attract the best. Pleasantness is also good. Be pleasant even with your friend's girlfriends before you know it some of them will have a friend for you.
However, take it easy, you still have teh whole life ahead of you. Don't mess things up now. You know what I mean.
Good luck.
2006-10-25 06:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sage_Learner 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, if your friends all decide to jump off a cliff, would you do the same?
You don't have to feel patethic just becos you don't have a girlfriend. Gawd!!! You are 18 years old and single. Time to get back into the single's scene and have some fun. She'll come when you least expect it. Trust me.
2006-10-25 06:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by Rin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well looks aren't the only criteria that most women look for these days. Although at your age, I don't expect that you'll have much achievements yet, but women are ALSO drawn to success, financial freedom, charm, humour, overall character, etc. Hint: A guy with a good character probably wouldn't start off by saying he's good looking.
If it's any consolation, good looking people do pretty good at getting one night stands. lolz...
2006-10-25 06:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by OrdiNance 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok Rahul. You have the pathetic aura with you. Go out with a bunch of friends to a bar, and hit on the hottest babe. Do it for pride and youll be back in the game.
If you're in the States, then go to a party.
2006-10-25 05:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by Julio Cesar C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah, don't worry about such things. You could try to be more outgoing or social and try to join groups that interests you, you'll probably meet someone there. Maybe your friends can hook you up with someone they know as well. Just enjoy being single and she'll come to you. Good luck!
2006-10-25 06:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mate! You will find someone the minute you make the decision that you are happy the way things are with you now.
Realise....ok this is the way it is. I'm alone, I can survive alone, I will find a distraction.
The minute you start to get on with your life, happy and accepting! BINGO!!! She will turn up! You will be gob-smacked! You won't believe it. You won't sleep, you won't eat!
You'll be in love!
Good luck.
2006-10-25 06:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by Jan Frost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like you do right now, I feel What's wrong with me? My ex boyfriend who I still have feelings for has confessed his undying love for my sister, I've hit rock bottom! Stay strong, I'm going clubbing at the weekend and getting drunk, I suggest you do da same. Good Luck !
2006-10-25 06:02:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have asking my self the same ? for a long time, so i'm thinking now that, either people are intimidated by my beauty or just have issues with themselves, but honestly people look for a spark in your personality, its kinda like selling yourself in a sense, you have to convince others that you are that deal, but dont too far over board with it, you'll seem too obviously desperate for a date.
2006-10-25 06:00:21 · answer #11 · answered by mstoomuch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋