Okay I kind of understand this and kind of not.If your a guy is it really just sex when you have a one night stand?Can you turn your emotions off?I know for women theirs usually emotions mixed in with this.I just wanna know with guys if there having one night stands is it just physical???Also is there a way to tell the difference(to know if a guys emotionally involved?)Okay last question is their some kind of edicate to one night stands(i was asked this and really had no clue how to answer,so if any one knows please help me out on this one)
2006-10-24 22:30:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A one night stand is just that.. You never plan on seeing this person again.. pure sexual lust. The opportunity for sexual fantasy is there. The fact that its a one night stand gives you even more drive to "go all out" in this endeavor. Most of the time if it's gonna be a one night stand the guy wont kiss you, at least during the sex. he is too busy trying to " break your back". For guys I guess it is easier.. all we want to do at the time is the deed.. and nothing else. Now as to edict.. if both agree its a one night stand ... well its not to be discussed with the person after the fact and pretend it never happened at least around company. You don't go calling to see how he or she is doing. They were just a sexual release nothing more nothing less, and I bet that's the way the other person viewed it so should you.
2006-10-24 22:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by R J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not a matter of people turning off their emotions when it comes to habitually having one night stands. They are in a constant state of keeping their emotions bottled up, but the sexual drive is there, so having a one night stand is the way to "get your rocks off" without dealing with emotions or attachment. There's a lot of folks of both genders who desire to be disconnected from their emotions. There is a surprisingly large amount of women who have been hurt, abused, etc. that cope by shutting down emotionally. Also remember that these cases of one night stands generally don't involve some sex crazed man who takes advantage of an emotional girl, rather they're cases of two consenting adults who want that sexual release. Also remember that there's a lot of men out there that are faithful and loving and would love to have a girlfriend to treat right, especially in the sack!
2006-10-30 15:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by Zloar 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol
2006-10-24 22:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men do it because they feel the itch to fulfill their wanton desires..nothing emotional...just puuuuurrre lust!
me, i can never get laid if i don't feel any attraction or feelings...thank myself, i never had one night stands...& i don't want to have, if i can help it..
if you feel you're up to it, then just go with it...be prepared for the consequences though, one is feeling like a trash in the morning(from what i've heard)...also, protect yourself from nasty std's..
2006-10-24 22:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess guys do it 4 fun, they arent emotional, many of them i know
2006-10-24 22:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by mysterious guy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tough... for some people everything is just an adventure...
2006-10-24 22:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by sedatedeyes209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell..i got burned...a girl told me 9 mos later that i am the father of her baby...but i wear condom that that time...DNA test was done and it is +......am ******!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-24 22:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by Random Guy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋