beening a friendly and a friend-oriented person, i am friendly and nice to almost all the gals around me... thus when i like a gal, they thought i am treating them as another friend only.... Cos i often gets mistaken by the wrong gal around me just by being friendly...
What can i do??? i am a very shy guy when it comes to expressing how i feel to the gal i like.... the most i can do is to show extra concern... but she doesnt seems to notice i am treating her way better then i treating the rest....
HELP!!!! Wat can i do???
2006-10-24 22:27:06 · 7 answers · asked by kelvin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a frustrating problem. My dad solved it by writing notes to my mom to express his feelings.
He even wrote notes to us children at times to express himself, as he was a 'shy guy' too.
We loved him most in the world, though, so you've got a great chance to find the girl of your dreams and be in love with her!
2006-10-24 22:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ROLE PLAYING is the best for getting over being shy. Next time you go out pretend your someone you're not. e.g. The "outrageous" person you wish you were. It helps (obviously you wouldn't date someone as this person, but you could score), and well if it doesn't you'll have a few good stories for the kids later down the track hey.
Moral of the story is, grow some nutts and tell them straight.
2006-10-24 22:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, nothing's wrong with it, in the 1st place! Try to treat a bit differ
ent your crush, by holding her hand, fingers interlaced, some kisses
on the lips...that's the way cookie's crumbled. Trust me ; do it and good luck!
Ciao..John-John.
2006-10-24 22:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by John-John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe is you send of different body language to the girls that you like, this also works if your shy because it does take a great deal of confidence, to look into a girls eyes when your talking or touching her arm when you laugh, also when you sit with her, sit facing her like your letting her in, (apologies for how that sound lol.) dont create a barrier with your arms seperating you 2.
good luck, you sound great.
2006-10-24 22:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if i was u i would just come out. (stop being shy and it will help u give u more confendent) Anyway if u dont like this girl, still be nice 2 her (coz everygirl will like guys who are nice 2 them) But stop being so nice. And if u like this girl come out clean and say i like u/will u go out wif me?
2006-10-24 22:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by **Carrie-Roxz** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you send out the wrong information ... and just sms da gurl you like a simple msg saying i like you , etc .
2006-10-25 02:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by precious moments babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. but when the time is rite, tell them how you feel. be spontanious for once. it may work. . . . . good luck to ya
2006-10-24 22:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by lany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋