And don't tell me this crap like when your married or when your ready.
2006-10-24 21:54:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My little brother lost his at around 16 ( i walked in on them )
I guess around 15-18 is okay.
2006-10-24 21:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you looked into the eyes of the loved person lately?.....
If you don't have a girl yet, thats ok. Don't rush. Judging by the
"pseudo-answer" you have already given to yourself it seems that you haven't got any patience....Why? I mean the sexual act is something which last for a short period of time. At least for me more important is the sweet memory you will have after....
Now, I'll guess you wanna hear an answer to yor question. Well, you can read the messages turn of your Pc and go and pay a prostitute do do her job....But this stupid ideea can not be compared with that day when you really can feel that your in heaven. Trust me, loosing your virginity simply by decided so, can cause you many problems in the future....
Cose..... I bet you don't wanna know this , but losing the virginity can represent a major change in your life, in good or in bad.
There isn't a "natural time" in losing the virginity- but that day will surtantly be a very special one if you will be able to keep your head straight and smile: "for you" it wasn't a party with drunken teenagers, an escape to the borthel or the effects of consuming drugs.
It is up to you to decide "WHEN"
and remember....look into her eyes ( you will find out why).
2006-10-24 22:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by Night Sorrows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'll still tell you even if you dont want to hear it. Its better when you are married because marturity comes with getting well acquinted with yourself so as to have a firm control over your impulses, your general self. So wait till you're married that's the safest and best way to lose your virginity without any hassles or fear of the unknown or diseases which is ever increasing. Dont put trust in the protective packages being sold!!!
2006-10-24 22:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by girlfunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No age is really natural in this day and age, since we have many rules regarding male and female relations. Also we pretty much vilify sex.
But anyways, yeah... from what I've read most people lose virginity by 18. Some people haven't, like me, but I try not to think it's "unnatural." It really isn't if you think about it.
2006-10-24 22:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by djdep13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right time is what you asked, well when one finds the right women to marry that is the right time. First of all, the right time is not when you feel your hormones are stirring, the the only answer you want is a crappy answer and you got them . To bad that sex is the only reason for a relationship these days anyway, and you wonder why relationships go wrong.. Dont ask a question if you dont like the answer.
2006-10-24 22:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although physically ready in your young teens (13-15), you may not be emotionally ready. Too much data available to disprove both sides of this issue.
IMHO, the 16-18 year olds are better equipped for the challenge. Too much younger, it's just like rape. Wait too much longer, you may explode. Wear a condom and be patient. Ask your parents if they are available, or ask an adult you trust and respect.
2006-10-24 22:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by Michael K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The average male loses it at 16, the average female at 17
2006-10-24 21:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by el nombre 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see your getting some "digs" Zach, well (no crap!) eight, ten years old. Night emissions, masturbation. If your talking with a lady. It's a social thing. How old are your friends, what type of friends do you have, where do you "hang out" and with who. A lot of things come into the picture here.
Have you played "doctor" with female friends, etc have you played "you show me and I'll show you?" it's hard to say Zach.
2006-10-24 22:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religious = marriage.
Spiritual = when you're in love.
Atheist = as soon as possible.
Most likely during college (19-20) since most people are not hardcore religious but do wait until they're a little more mature.
2006-10-24 21:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by Julio Cesar C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
THE BEST IS 18 OR 20
2006-10-24 21:56:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋