I am attracted to this girl who goes to elite school, when I used to work there for min..job. She kinda seemed to sorta like me. But I often think what does a rich girl like her has to do anything with me?
Is there a possibility of rich girl being attracted to a min...job working guy?
2006-10-24 21:00:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not possible...
2006-10-24 21:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you something. My family is rich, and I have always got what I want- everything... Name it and it's mine - holidays, jewellery, real estate, I also went to the best elite girls-only schools... Anyway, a few months back... I was staying at a 4 star hotel in the Middle East. I met many people there. It was more like a hotel for businessmen and they were all around with their suits and all.
And guess for whom I fell? The receptionist. He was by far the most handsome and that's what attracted me to him. Then we got to be friends and all... and eventually I called him my lover.
1. The biggest problem in our relationship is that he is convinced that "we" will not last. He is all the time saying that I will meet other guys and get over him. He thinks that I am just playing with him.
2. Another problem is that ALL my friends say he is after my money.
3. He is 25 and I am 20... And he has been through a hard time in his life and he is very mature while I am sort of childish. He is also very jealous.
I do now know what tomorrow is made of. I wish that he would just live the present.
Maybe that is what you should try to do too... Live the present. Learn about each other. Try to understand what each of you two want. Also, please do not doubt about her... Believe her, trust her.
I'm telling you what I would want my man to be like... :)
2006-10-24 21:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by flowerbud 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure she can like you. Have you ever talked to someone without making plans on them?
Her family is rich... maybe not her... you might have more pocket money than she does.
She may not get spending $ at home and might be after your milk money.
Maybe she genuinely admires you because you do that "working" thing that she may never have to do.
You can date a rich girl but it will probably only last for so long... you have to work and she gets invitations to fly around all the time...
Then again... you haven't even talked to her enough to know if she would hang out with you for awhile... kinda putting the cart before the horse...
Best wishes.
2006-10-24 21:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jesus H. Zeitgeist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, she's just a really nice, down to earth girl who happens to have parents who are well off. And she's friendly and polite and likes to have a wide range of friends.
But in the long run, you are not going to be boyfriend material.
Her parents will probably view you as a fortune hunter, even though you're not, and she, being well educated and able to run in the "right" circles, will have a very wide field of matrimonal candidates to chose from, when she is ready.
That isn't to say she couldn't be attacted to you. It's just to say that any relationship probably wouldn't be "happily ever after", and if that's what you're interested in, I wouldn't waste my time mooning over her.
If you're still set on having her, then you know what you have to do: advance your education, continue working hard and going for better and better jobs, save your money, live frugally, and get into a real career instead of min. wage job. That will make you much more acceptable to her parents, and in the long run, more compatible with her, or with young ladies like her.
2006-10-24 21:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Johnna L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rich marry the rich. If she really loves you the chances that her family will allow her to marry you with no reservations are quite slim. Even if you do marry there is a distinction that would make the union improbable. It does happen occasionally....lasting is less a possibility. Good luck, you could be the exception and I hope that you are a success story.
2006-10-24 21:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she could be. just bc her parents have money it doesnt necessarily mean that it matters to her. All it does is bring in more material things. If she was raised well, being wealthy wont be the most important thing she sees in a man. It never hurts to try. Become friends with her first and see how it goes from there.
2006-10-24 21:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by BJTD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is very possible. Attraction and even love has nothing to do with social status or wealth.
Talk to her and get to know her a little better and then see where things go from there.
Good luck!
2006-10-24 21:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can be attracted to him alright, but I doubt that her parents are spending all this money on a fancy school to let her drop out and marry him. Sorry.
2006-10-24 21:03:02 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Destiny has a funny way sometimes. It is possible.
2006-10-24 21:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
anything is possible, but I'm afraid chances are she could just be playing with you
2006-10-24 21:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by TLD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must have something to offer her.
sense of humour, love, some skills or knowledge etc..
balls to you
2006-10-24 21:17:22 · answer #11 · answered by Martin the baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋