My ex-boyfriend has been having an affair for the last six years with a married woman who is his boss. Is it illegal for me to tell her husband? I've already called and told him about it, and was then threatened by my ex and his mistress with a civil suit for harassment (though I did not contact either of them). Her husband wants details. If I provide them, is this harassment toward him, his wife or my ex?
2006-10-24 20:45:17 · 11 answers · asked by Miss Cobra Town 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
My ex-boyfriend has been having an affair for the last six years with a married woman who is his boss. Is it illegal for me to tell her husband? I've already called and told him about it, and was then threatened by my ex and his mistress with a civil suit for harassment (though I did not contact either of them). Her husband wants details. If I provide them, is this harassment toward him, his wife or my ex?
--I should have mentioned: the affair is why we broke up a few days ago, after about 14 months of living together. I'm not mad anymore, but I have great empathy for the husband, as my ex and his mistress are constantly going back and forth about her leaving her husband for myex. Husband and I kind of in the same situation--I'd want to know the truth, and am giving him the same opportunity to take control of the outcome, instead of being the fool.
2006-10-25 04:02:22 · update #1
There must be clear and substantial evidence to prove harassment. Your telling him about their infidelities does not constitute harassment.
Go for it!
2006-10-24 20:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not harassment long as u dont Mess with ur ex, or the other woman tell them to go to hell
2006-10-24 20:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by The Messiah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you can prove everything you say. If you can, then you
are in no danger of legal prosecution.
If the ex and his mistress have already contacted you, legal danger is not your only worry. Be careful.
2006-10-24 20:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by Farnham the Freeholder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need some kind of proof. You may need to sleep with one eye open too They have a lot to lose. What I wonder is If he is your ex, what business is it of yours? A court may think the same thing.
2006-10-24 20:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by jekin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong for this woman to be cheating on her husband. But, why do you care? It's none of your business! Are you trying to get back at your ex? Just leave it alone and let Karma handle it.
2006-10-24 20:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by munkees81 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, they are just trying to threaten you, and apparently its working. However, if it is indeed the truth, and you can back it up with dates,and photos, then go for it. If you have no proof, it will just seem like sour grapes though
2006-10-24 20:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm no legal-eagle but I don't believe it is illegal for you to speak up.
You realise none of them will ever have anything to do with you ever again though.
Be careful how you do it.
2006-10-24 20:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by Jan Frost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope i would do the same if u cheat u know ur gonna get caught sometime they need to get told on go on gurl i prolly would have kicked her an his #ss already
2006-10-24 20:49:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their just trying to scare you. Harassment??LOL...right!!! It's called pay back not harassment.
2006-10-24 20:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, that is not harrassment, as long as it is true. Go ahead and tell the poor guy
2006-10-24 20:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by bambi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋