2006-10-24 20:19:10 · 17 answers · asked by yashwant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
wait a few months, maybe the answer will make itself obvious. If the relationship survives the stress, it's worth it. If it doesn't, it may be better for you if you are not legally/financially tied together.
Overall, it's your decision. You (and your significant other) have to live with your choice.
Best of luck
2006-10-24 20:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by the guru 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are these "concerns?"
Do your families not get along?
Are there physical problems in one or both of your families?
Do your families not approve of your marriage?
Are one or both of your families running from the law? The Mob?
What "concerns?"
2006-10-24 20:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing at a time
Either you love your family or you love each other.
If you are concerned about family just forget marriage
If you really love each other then forget the family.
Just make sure it is not physical attraction that you people are trying to label as love
2006-10-24 22:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by bhimi6787 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a right time to talk to your family member who could handle this situation. If both of you are well settled at job then i dont think there will be any problem. Any way let her put a word to the right person of her family & so also you. Then it will be easy for any of the family members to talk to other family member with out any probs.But bear in mind, talk to them when they are in good mood.Best of luck.
2006-10-24 20:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by sujathaprm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience is the key. Persuade your respective parents to consider the partner you've chosen for yourself. just don't be afraid to approch them, love is not a crime. Don't pressurise your parents as they tend to get more irritated from that. talk to them , ask them to meet the girl/boy u've chose to spend your rest of the life with. don't get disheartened if they say no initially. Tell them you'll not marry this person unless they don't agree for it but also make them realise that you wont/cant marry anyother person. Whatever you do plz don't elope with your partner, this increases friction amongst the family and your parents will always view your partner in the light the-one-who-stole-their-son / daughter -from-them... i wish you guys best of luck !
2006-10-24 21:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by whatever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it about your family that concerns the both of you? Is it something minor, something that the both of you can overcome through mediation or compromise??
2006-10-24 20:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by munchy monster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not believe in all this. Parents will be ok in some time after u take ur decision.
2006-10-24 22:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for the minds and souls unite before traditionally making the bodies combine!
2006-10-28 13:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by R Purushotham Rao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have the answer go ahead, if ur concerned about ur family then........ u know better what to do
2006-10-24 20:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by Cool gal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is to short
so be with the one you love.
2006-10-24 20:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋