kept looing at me while i was eating i found out he had a girlfriend but was he not flirting with me? isnt prolonged eye contact flirting?
2006-10-24 19:22:59 · 18 answers · asked by brig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Prolonged eye contact doesn't necessarily denote flirting. A lot of people will tell you that it's a sure sign, but it's really not. Some people just make more eye contact than others. I think you should give it some time and let things progress, and wait for other signs of flirting. If he already has a gf, I wouldn't get to excited anyway.
2006-10-24 19:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by ern_linnell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you write he has a girl friend... I think you consider him as if he is married. A man who is not married, no matter what he is doing with his girlfriend, never made up his mind to stay with that girlfriend, and he is going to flirt with anyone that he sees that seems more interesting, or even just a change from the boring old girlfriend.
Here is a rule: it is only dating if both people agree that they are dating. He can say hello to you and talk to you a zillion times, it does not count unless both he thinks it is a date and you think it is a date.
Now, if this fellow is bothering you with his attention, then just say to him straight, to not stare at you so much. But if you are willing to be friendly with him, then talk to him an hour lunch, even if you think he is flirting with you, just be calm and friendly.
The thing to do is to find someone that YOU want to date, even while this guy is wasting his own time with you.
2006-10-25 02:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by old c programmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it in the friend category, until something more is said or done. Realize this- a friend is better than a boyfriend. Don't jump to conclusions, it sound as though you're searching. Just take your time it'll come. It surely will but headaches and problems will come along with it if you're not friends first.
2006-10-25 04:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prolong eye contact may also mean I would like to get to know you as a friend.
2006-10-25 02:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could have just been interested in the conversation you were having. don't jump to conclusions. but since you have found out that he has a girlfriend it is best to let him blow in the wind before you find yourself in a cat fight! meow
2006-10-25 02:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by sweettee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its definetely a display of interest or a staring problems.
2006-10-25 02:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys just like to look around, when something catches our eyes we just kinda space out and stare... there are thoes creepy stalker types who arent really spaced out though...
2006-10-25 02:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by undeadgh0st 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u believe in love at first sight f u dont then take time to no him before u give in
2006-10-25 02:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by frank w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are guys you can never tell anymore what in the world they are doing.
2006-10-25 02:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by cavigirl17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is. it is obvious he wants you on the side while he still carries on with his girlfriend. i say play the game if you are hot for it.
2006-10-25 02:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋