i did it with both of my boys on a differnt day but got pregnant round the same time if u don't have nothing nice to say don't say nothing at all
2006-10-24 18:48:19 · 12 answers · asked by mamamerker 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
OK first of all i feel bad for you because that is a very depressing situation. And apparently SOME people did not read your question thoroughly. So while they are saying you are irresponsible I'm saying they are dumb asses! You specifically said if you cant say anything nice dont say anything at all. And i find it very frustrating that people are so quick to judge as if they have lived a perfect life. WE ALL SCREW UP once in a while. At least you are not saying its between 8 guys or you want an abortion. But unfortunately you wont be able to tell100% until the baby is here. My suggestion though is to get all your facts together to give you a good idea. Try figuring out what days you ovulated according to your last period. I think it is 12- 16 days after your last period. Did you use a condom with both people or just one person? or did you have one of the guys Pull out and not the other? those sort of questions. Also when you get you ultra sound they can give you a estimated time of conception if you ask. but those ultra sounds are tricky good luck to you.
2006-10-25 15:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Kari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes mom. ha-ha. no really, that's a cra_ppy situation. I hope they both know about it and about each other. it makes it easier, cause my advise is to sit down and talk to each one of them and get their opinions. Do either one of them want to be a daddy? My brothers got a little girl he knows is his. when his "babymomma" got pregnant again, he told her he would be that baby's daddy no matter what, even though they didn't know if it was his. (she had a boy and it wasn't his, but he still says he's got two kids he loves.) If neither guy wants to man up and be there, wait til junior is born, figure out who he looks most like, and slap him with a paternity suit. If he don't want to pay support, he'll have to pay for the paternity suit instead. then you'll know for sure.
2006-10-24 19:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by scintillating69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to miss mommy thang up there! Just get a paternity test or just wait to find out and explain to both so they are aware. This happened to a girlfriend of mine she was a wreck but God got her through she went for an abortion three times but didnt do it. Think about YOUR baby before you do anything you will regret and take care of yourself.
2006-10-24 19:18:32 · answer #3 · answered by Bedhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to pass judgement, but thts kinda stupid what you did... very irreseponsible.. hopefully you've learned a lesson from this childish behavior.. you're just going to have to wait until 2 weeks after the baby is born to get a DNA test
2006-10-24 18:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest - tell the two prospective fathers what is going on. Rather ge tit out of the way now sothat you know where you stand with them. The truth always comes out hun and instead of living with the guilt, tell them. Besides that, they both have an equal right to know that the baby you are carrying might not be theirs.
Alot of resentment and hate can come out of this if you arent honest. You aso need to decide who it is that you want to be with and stick with that one man if he will still have you - God Bless you hun, I hope everything turns out ok x
2006-10-24 19:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by Chez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u would have to wait till u had the baby then thru the courts get a blood test from both males, then youll know, you should of kept ur legs closed u got a real big problem
2006-10-24 18:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by soldierofyah7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your "boy's baby" up for adoption so he/she stands a bit of a chance. I feel so completely sad for babies born to people like you. I know you have had it rough, blah, blah, blah. Heard it a million times before. But pleeeeezzzzz honey, try to make a change and do right from now on.
2006-10-24 19:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them both ahead of time so nobody will be heartbroken if they think the baby is theirs.It will come out sooner or later but hopefully the one you want will understand & be forgiving
2006-10-24 18:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to take a DNA test after the baby is born, and you have to tell both them that they have to take it too, if both of them will ask why, better tell them the truth
2006-10-24 18:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by bluecross0924 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a dilemma.....I guess your going to have to rely on a paternity test.....good luck
2006-10-24 18:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by Diamond in the Rough 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋