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I want help from this group and I think you all can help me in a better way.
It will be a small Question but very important for me, I want tell you the exact situation so you all can understand and guide me in a proper way.
I am 24 Yrs and I am in love. He love me equally and I have no problem from his side, but my problem is that my dad is not accepting our relationship. He is exact match for me but he is not from my cast and this is the main problem for my Dad. I spoke to him ( my Dad ) twice but he is telling that he is ready to do every thing for me but he can not accept him ( my BF).I told everything to my dad but after that my dad start doing emotionally blackmail to me.
Now tell me what should I do ?

Answer 1

You are 24 years old, just do what you think is right. You cannot persuade your dad to accept him, then ask him why? He must have a reason he will not accept him. If he doesn't and you feel like this is the guy for you, then you just get married and worry about your dad later. If you ever have kids, he will be the first one there to see his grandchild. good luck..

Answer 2

From my point of view, your Dad has no right. Parents can't help but look out for our best interest, but there comes a time where they need to leave us be to make our own decisions. If this is what you really want, then claim it as yours. Love your Father with all your might, but ignore his emotional blackmail. You are 24 years old - you have the right to choose a man for yourself. I'm sure you have already made it clear to your father how you feel, and if your father loves you like I know he does, then he will come around if it is what you truly want. I don't understand cast, or what it implies for you and your family - but if you are in love, then the love will find a way. It always does.

Answer 3

He is not from your cast? Are you saying that his family is poor? Is he a different race or religion? How can he be your exact match if he's from a different mold? Here's my advice. I'm running under the assumption your father has money. Maybe he'll cut you off maybe he wont. If I knew who my "exact match" was. I don't care what job she had, how much money she had. I don't care if she's an one legged albino midget. I'd blow my father off and tell him to call me when he can accept the life I've chosen for myself.

Answer 4

Can u also start blackmailing him emotionally
do not eat food, stay mourn always, wear white dress, donot do any make up , always be crying(better buy glicerine) such kinds of stuffs may change u r dads mind.
HE LOVES U VERY MUCH

Answer 5

If your love is great enough to suffer the consequences for his sake, then fight for your love. Explain to your dad, that you truly love him and for him to accept that fact. if he does not, then take the leap in the name of love.

Answer 6

Go ahead and marry him. Situation will improve with time.

Answer 7

MY PARENTS WERE ALSO AGAINST MY BOYFRIEND. HOWEVER, I REALIZED THAT THIS MAN AND I WERE MEANT FOR EACH OTHER AND IF MY PARENTS COULD NOT ACCEPT HIM, THAT WAS THEIR PROBLEM. WE WERE MARRIED AND MY PARENTS DISOWNED ME AND WOULDN'T SPEAK TO ME FOR TWO YEARS. I MISSED THEM, BUT MY HUSBAND AND I WERE OUR OWN FAMILY, THEN. WHEN MY PARENTS REALIZED WE WERE NOT GOING TO SPLIT UP, THEY FINALLY CAME AROUND. IT TOOK A WHILE, BUT AFTER 28 YEARS THEY FIGURED HE WASN'T GOING AWAY. GOOD LUCK TO YOU, BUT REMEMBER THAT YOUR LIFE HAS TO BE LIVED BY YOU AND LIVED FOR EACH OTHER AND NOT YOUR PARENTS.

Answer 8

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