Do you think this guy knows I have a crush on him now?

Question

There was this guy I like. One time I called him several times on his phone. I would let the phone ring for a long time even if he doesn't answer it. This happened like 5 times a day for like 4 consecutive days. He didn't answer any of my calls.

Then after that, He seems to avoid me everytime I say hi to him. Now, many months after that incident, I don't say hi to him anymore because he ignores me. And now that I'm not paying so much attention to him, he seems to have a change in attitude. He started acting normal again and he says hi and smiles at me now.

Do you think he knows I like him? How come he didn't answer any of my calls then became unfriendly after that? And then how come he started being friendly with me again now that I'm paying very little attention to him?

Answer 1

That's simple, guys want what they cant have. It's the hunt that they love. Once they have caught you they get bord as soon as you give them the " piece of PIE " they have forgotten you b-4 your pants r back on , & if they come back its just cuz their in between hunt's, and you'll do 4 now.
The best way to get guys interested in you is.................... FIRST ; Smile, you can ignore them and still give a beautiful smile in thier direction( keeps e'm guessin'...ie..he'll b wondering if it was for him inside, but braggin' 2 his pals that it was 4 him ) his pals may even think the same. All the while ignoring them with ice around the edges. Dont be too cold though u want them to think that there is a chance 4 them.
SECOND ; Do not go steady till your out of high school.. Always keep your options open, u dont want to b tied down 2 one bonehead all through high school . Have fun be free, i mean go on dates, and get to know them. Just wait till u see the look on their face when you say , "Oh sorry Steve i cant go out w/ you next fri. I've already got a date planned w/Chris" it is truely priceless, i mean they thought this was their territory. Now you just kindly explain that your sorry they missunderstood you have a personal rule....... You dont go steady, you arent married , (make sure you add this part) and u certainly dont plan on getting hitched till your 35 or so. It makes their head spin! they cant belive u wouldnt go steady w/ them and whats wrong w/ them that u wont marry them. This only makes u that much more intrieging, more of a challenge, they cant stand to loose, this is what makes them persue you almost relentlessly.
THIRD ; No punt intended but this last one adds the cherry to the top, Make sure that they know you will not have sex till your married (if it is true or not no matter thats your buisness) the point is that they are aware of it 1 more thing that adds challenge to the (hunt) You will find guys saying to you that they really admire and respect that , but they have got to try and see if they are "special" enough for you to give this to them, they cant help it, it is their nature. one last thing , be mysterious, dont let them know how you feel just give them enough to keep em' on a leash. There is only one thing they are interested in, and to put it blunt, it is gettin' to cream your twinky, or anyone elses for that matter. They are young men and that is just how it is they mean nothing by it , its just how it is.
Last ; unless u want to be in compatition with every girl in school and you want the guys to chase them the way they will certainly chase you when you apply this advice. Keep it to yourself. All the other girls will wonder what youve changed to get so popular w/ the guys. they wont have a clue your not treating them any diff.
So i hope this is what u needed, if not you'll be able to use regardless. Have fun !!! Remember :
SMILE; I've always said everyone deserves to be greeted with a smile. so let me know how it goes will ya? If there is something u dont understand, you can use my 360 link ok .
Care and Bless!

Answer 2

based on what uv said, it seems that ur friend is not ready yet for a serious friendship or relationship with u. perhaps, he knew that u had a crush on him when uv done that calling thing to him, but have been able to get over with ur feelings then..that's why he's acting normal again to u.

i believe that its better to form a good foundation of friendship to him first without him knowing that u have intimate feeling towards him to prevent awkwardness in his side... and then later, he may find u interesting that u wouldn't notice after all that he is the one making the move already to u.

just be patient and be more friendly to him and everybody else so u will look pretty and things will go well with u :)

Answer 3

I encountered a girl like this but she had an answering machine. It's annoying because I had to guess, like you did, that the person was deliberately avoiding me for no good reason. Stay away, don't give him a second chance unless he apologizes. It looks like maybe he doesn't know you like him. It's not worth thinking about why he behaved the way he did. He's not worth the effort.

I am curious though. Why does your name here have Mrs in it? I hope you're not married.

Answer 4

You created the challenge. Guys like the challenge. Unless you were 'supposed' to do something that day any guy or girl who saw that you called 5 times is too much. I can usually tell who called my cell. Maybe i was busy, maybe I was playing hard to get. Once I saw that person call more than 3 times it shows too much. Just relax and create the challenge.

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JT
Dating is an oxymoron in itself.

Answer 5

Be careful, yes he most definitely knows.

Continue to ignore him because when you were interested , he didn't give you the time of day.

You are not desperate

he probably has a bet that he will have you how ever he likes. LIES!!!!!

Next!

Answer 6

Whatever you do don't drop hints because if they don't feel the same way you fell like s*** and all you got to do is start talking to them and don't drop hints is all you got to do just hang out find out what they want

Answer 7

Guys are usually pretty dense when it comes to that kind of thing. Give him more signs. - flip your hair and giggle more then touch his hand and say, "you're so silly" - -then laugh some more.

I htink he'll get that

Answer 8

precisely! he knows you like him! because you're acting a little bit aggressive, he gets so irritated. some guys hate that. don't grab them, wait for them to do something. he became friendly to you because you're not bothering him too much.... i think so

Answer 9

mayb he didnt like u b4 but now that ur payin less attention 2 him mayb he wants 2 be ur friend or somethin

Answer 10

Sounds like he was scared off, but is giving you a second thought.

Cheers!