I datee my x gal for seven months. The first month she wanted me not to talk to her boss by phone because she believed that her boss liked me. I told my x that I wanted to be with her not her boss. They both work at a hair salon. Well a few months went by and my x gal always inquired whether or not her boss had called me. Well, need less to say her boss new a few things about my x gal. her boss revealed to me that my x was married to obtain her green card and all the while she was with me. She did not live with her husband it was a contract per say. As time went on my x gal and I had great times and eventually made love. Seven months into the relationship she wanted to end it with no explanation at all other than she could not make time for me. I never told her what her boss revealed to me. We loved each other very much and the last time I saw her was in june when we had a huge fight. she told me that she made a mistake. Did she mean it? Will she be back?
2006-10-24 17:46:24 · 12 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no - you need to move on
2006-10-24 17:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she actually admitted to making a mistake shows that she is coming to some realizations about the decisions she must have hastely made. If I was in your situation, I would be careful with someone that was witholding serious info from me - like already being married, contractual or not, y'know? That is definently a situation I can't understand, but that seems like a pretty important fact for a relationship that's as close as yours is. Since you knew this info about the marriage, kept it to yourself and went on caring for her - it shows how good of a person you are. She'll probably come back, man - but get ALL the facts before making any rash decisions of your own. Good luck my friend
2006-10-25 00:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by Bryan C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she does come back, then you had better confront her with the rumors you heard about her being married by contract just to get her green card. you have to learn the truth.
also, why would she be so jealous about her boss? if you both love one another, why would you be seeing her boss on a social basis?
this sounds a little infantile to me.
don't get burned.
2006-10-25 00:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by Louiegirl_Chicago 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The mistake was being with you while she was married. A green card is a powerful thing. Love, at best it's fleeting.
2006-10-25 00:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by standinghampton11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on dude, especially if she is married. there was obviuosly trust issues if she didn't want you to talk to her boss. not to mention your getting information behind her back. it was a lot of lust and some fun, now move on.
what were you doing in a hair salon to start with?
2006-10-25 00:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Rich C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like it. Who knows, if the boss stabbed her in the back, maybe she told the x some stuff about you.
2006-10-25 00:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by Cinderella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fell hard for the wrong lady! She doesn't and didn't love you, or she would not have treated you that way. You deserve better. Wait for a lady that treats you right, and one that can be completely truthful about the details in her life.
2006-10-25 00:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by Tanyaqt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You heard that your x was married. Why didn't you ask her whether she had a relationship going. I think she has moved on, and so should you.
2006-10-25 00:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be back for revenge. If that was me i would not be back to be with you.
2006-10-25 00:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes or no, don't take her back. NO WAY DUDE.
2006-10-25 00:50:14 · answer #10 · answered by Girl Goes Back To The Future 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋