ive just moved too the us from europe. i have lots of new friends, and feel accepted, but every day i cry and think no one likes me (although i know it is not true). objectively saying- im doing fine, studying at a v. good university, going out but i feel really empty and can't understand american customs. what advice do u guys have?
2006-10-24 16:58:05 · 4 answers · asked by Celeste K 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
This is quite common for people who come to a new culture. It's called "culture shock", and you are right, it's a mild form of depression. Many people get over it after a period of time, but if you are still having trouble after a few weeks, you might consider seeing a mental health counselor.
2006-10-24 17:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a counsellor if you feel your symptoms are severe. It's culture shock for sure. I moved from Canada to China now that's culture shock inducing. Sometimes it helps to rant to friends and family from home.
2006-10-24 19:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just feel homesick. Don't worry about "customs," you'll learn them as you go. Hell, I live in NJ, and feel culture shock when I go to Connecticut.
Love JAck
2006-10-24 17:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your new friends to explain our culture to you. Read books and rent videos.
2006-10-24 17:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋