she found out that her boyfriend was on adultfinder.com looking for women in his area code. She found it by accident using his laptop to go on the internet...What does this mean?
2006-10-24 16:53:39 · 13 answers · asked by aclazo979 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow it seems like hes looking for a nother option, but not cheating, yet. it seems like if he finds a better girl then he will dump her for the website person. byeee
2006-10-24 16:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by Tessa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it could mean a lot of different things...either hes looking for someone different, trying to find someone he knew or knows, someone else was using his computer or he was just checking out the site for somthing to do....
But before she jumps to any conculsions, she needs to confront him about this and see what kind of answer he gives. than go from there, if she askes him and he has no idea she knows than most likely it will be obvious if he lies, its hard to just come up with a good enough excuss when caught off garud. But if he does have a good reason, what ever it may be than she needs to either trust him or get rid of him. But before she does this shes gotta comfront him about it, she deserves to know the truth or at least get some what of a explanation
2006-10-24 16:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its really means anything. Unless you're the girlfriend and want to invistigate further. Maybe You should tell her to just watch for signs of unhappinesses with the relationship. Or just tell her to talk to him about how he feels about the whole "them". Its 2006, Who doesn't look at stuff like that? its like porn. Its not cheating unless he is actually meeting up with these females and trying to engage in something.
2006-10-24 16:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that he is looking for outside interests and may have the potential to cheat given the right opportunity, no man or woman goes on that site just looking for people in their area without their being some motive behind it..
2006-10-24 17:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is looking for other women. Alot of men look just because that is their nature. I wouldn't get too excited until she finds out he has actually contacted any of them. She needs to keep her eyes open but don't punish a man for looking.
2006-10-24 16:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by pleeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad was doing somthing like this. He claims it is just seeing what is out there. That may be true but I, and your friend, will never quite trust that person again. If is is cheating or not, it would be good to end it.
2006-10-24 16:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by Romeoashg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup thats a sign that hes not getting what he wants in their relationship so his looking for someone new.If i were your friend i would confront him cuz maybe he is already cheating on her and shes not doing anything about it.
2006-10-24 16:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpinkness2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is cheating or at least thinking of it.or why else wold he even be looking for women in HIS AREA CODE?!?If he just wanted to "look" then why wasn't he just looking at pictures of chicks that he cant contact instead?
2006-10-24 16:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by morenita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just entertaining him self . hes not cheating just planting his wild oats ,, why dont you answer hes add and find out the two of you can crack onto him and make a meet
2006-10-24 16:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) He was curious
2) He was looking for someone to have sex with
Either way, I would encourage your friend to have an open and honest discussion with her boyfriend.
2006-10-24 16:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by Chicagoan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋