i just started goin with this guy whos like 1 year and 12 days younger than me. i really like him but my friends dont approve him but he doesnt approve my friends either. my friends doesnt like him 1 bit and he doesnt like them 1 bit. im feelin like they're makin me choose but i cant choose becuz thats my friends and we have been friends for over 3 years but thats my boyfriend on the other hand who i really really really like. but my boyfriend said he doesnt want to be in between me and my friends. but i dont want him to leave me alone now. we're still goin out its just he might not send that much time wit me. but the bad thing is that i see my friends alot and i only see my boyfriend only 2 times a day. why cant they understand that i dont get to see him alot and i see them alot...so wat should i do?
2006-10-24 16:46:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do your friends have a good reason for not liking him? Or are they just jealous of the time you spend with him? If they have a good reason, take it to heart...your friends are only looking out for you. But if they're just jealous cuz you spend more time with him now, then you should make an effort to balance them and your boyfriend so that you don't have to give up anyone and no one feels left out. Good luck!
2006-10-24 17:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jen B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life and you live it the way you wish.
You sound too young to be in a committed relationship, though. To ease the problem, all you need do is to treat the boy as a friend and not as a b/f. You may be surprised to find that as you grow older, this will become a non-issue. So don't worry too much about it!
If they don't like each other, don't see them together.
2006-10-25 00:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention your age but it sounds like your friends need to grow up. Your boyfriend sounds more mature.
2006-10-24 23:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Marie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋