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Question

Ok so i'm 18 my gf is 20, and up until last night she was a virgin. Had no sexual experience whatsoever. K so we are laying there watching a movie and she said she wanted to know how "it" felt so we talked a lil bit then the moment came, so we started and a few minutes went by then she asked me if she was still a virgin, i said no. She got all sad and stuff, apparently she thought that in order to lose her virginity her and the guy she was with had to "get off" at the same time, so basically she lost her virginity and didn't even know what was happening, i feel soooo bad, like i had know idea she didn't know what was happening. So i want to know you guys advise on this, what should i do? I mean how do i make her feel better?

Answer 1

Dude!! You went first?? Shame on you!! lol

Answer 2

At 20, she should have known a bit more about sex, even if she'd never had it...but you can't "make" her feel better, she has to choose to do that...

Talk to her though...explain that you didn't realize what her expectations were, and that a very high percent of couples never climax at the same time...a lot of women don't climax at all from vaginal sex...

Perhaps she needs to talk to some of her girlfriends about her experience...if she hears that the typical first sexual experience isn't all fireworks and eyes rolling back in ones head, maybe she'll feel less remorseful about it...after all, there's plenty of time for LOTS of orgasms ahead!

Answer 3

doesn't she knw after having it u dont remain a virgin?
what do u mean by she didn't know what was happening, was she druken or out of her senses?

Answer 4

obvisiouly you didn't put it in the right spot or else she would have known you were there .... if she will give you some again try making her feel special and stop being a pig......

Answer 5

Tell her to talk to her friends they will help more than you because they will know what she is going through.