Why are people evil to unnattractive women? Especially blacks?

Question

I have been unnattractive all my life or so I think. I have had many guys like me alot of them have been attractive.

But all of my life I have heard "god she's ugly" this and that. My question is why do some people go out of their way to humiliate me in public by saying this? Especially black people, mind you I am black myself (there are alot of beautiful black women I am just not one of them) but why are black people so rude?

Why can't some people just keep things to themselves why do they have to always vocalize things to purposely hurt someones feelings.

Case in point.

I am walking in the parking lot this girl (all by herself says loudly "she's ugly" loud enough for me to hear why can't some people just keep things to themselves.

I am really confused because I went to a plastic surgeon and he says there is nothing wrong with me that I am okay as I am and mind you good looking men have asked me out. I don't get it I'm confused?

Answer 1

To be honest with you, I don't think you are ugly. If good-looking men like you and ask you out, then you're probably attractive. Your personality probably brings it out more. Now, as for those people who go out of their way to call you ugly, it's jealousy. Just think about it. Why would you do that? Unless you're jealous of the girl's beauty. Girls are very jealous and when they see someone threatening they want to make her feel insecure. I've been through it my whole life. Just love yourself and ignore them. You're beautiful.

Answer 2

You're probably better looking than you think you are. People often find fault with others because others have found fault with them. The negativity gets passed along. Lots of times the criticism is not true or meant personally. It's just an unhappy person lashing out at the nearest victim.

At any rate, beauty is on the inside. We all eventually get old and unattractive, if we're lucky enough to live that long. The people who make cruel remarks will lose their outward attractiveness as they age. And then they'll have nothing.

Answer 3

If they say your ugly, then they want a reaction from you,whoever their with, and whose ever in ear shot of the nasty things they say.

If the majority of the disrepectual comments come from black people please dont say it like its black people being rude to you. Dont single out a race, its not fair, if the population is more filled with blacks then the odds, the chance that that'll be cruel will be greater.


The only thing you need to work on is your self-confidence.. Thats it, if a women is going out of their way to say your ugly, honestly they noticed you: most people dont want to notice ugly people.... Your beautiful and their jealous, if their not jealous then their just want to be jackazzes.

Dont worry about them, theres nothing to be confused about: the idiots want attention negative or not your their lamb.

Your beautiful, like the doctor said; there's nothing wrong with you.

And if you have attractive men liking you: all the more reason to gain more self-confidence from taking up a class, dance, reading, working out, putting a sexy outfit on, lend your time to a program.


Your beautiful as James Blunt put it!

Answer 4

Believe me, there are plenty of white people and other races the same way. I suppose more blacks do it than others maybe because they are more vocal?

At any rate - darlin - don't worry about it. TRUE BEAUTY is not skin deep. True beauty is idown deep in the heart and to the soul. And these people saying this are ugly to the heart, and ugly to the soul. Ugly to the bone.

Feel sorry for these ugly people saying ugly things about wonderful people like yourself. They insult others to make their-selves feel better about themselves. And who needs jerks like that hanging around??? Thank God you aren't like them, say a prayer for them and stay sweet.

Answer 5

Hey girl, you must learn that everywhere you go you will have haters. Like the comedian Katt Williams said" If you have 10 people hating on you, try to get to 25 haters by the summer. There probably jealous of you. Be encouraged.....and remember God loves you and that's what's up!

Answer 6

Simple...People are insecure about their own appearance and they feel like they have to put someone else down to put thirself! It is awful and it is hard to change what others say and do but just know that you are the better person by not doing things like that to people who don't look a certain way!

Answer 7

The people who make such rude remarks are just mean. If you believe in God, you will know that HE doesn't make junk. So, you cannot be as ugly as you think you are.

Hold yourself up and know that God made you in his own image.

Take care of yourself, smile and be happy.

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. One day you will find a kind person who will tell you how beautiful you are.

Good Luck!!

Answer 8

People are sick. I have had appearance problems since corrected through plastic surgery and don't have this problem anymore but have lived through this. It is hell on earth.

Have you been asking plastic surgeons for a specific surgery ie nose job or are you just going to they saying you want to be attractive. You need to go in with a specific proceedure in mind or you will get the brush off.

Answer 9

You know why. People needs somebody to talk about , so they can feel good about themselves. People are stupid like that. People who feel in secured about themselves will let in those nasty comments and start to feel like that. What you need to do is to look into a mirror and say that you are beautiful person, and believe that. And when some stupid ignorant person say something nasty like that again, laugh at them. Because you are better than that. You have pride in yourself. So show it.

Answer 10

Maybe the person was talking about someone else. The only people I could even imagine saying something so ridiculous would be teenagers, and who pays attention to them.

Whites aren't going to say it to your face because they are afraid you would beat them up.

Thanks for giving the white racists another weapon to talk about blacks on this forum.