we dated for 20 months, we never grew particularly close, never said i love you. i broke up with him because it really wasnt going anywhere (despite him maing me very happy most of the time) we had known each other since highscool (about 5 years). in a conversation a few weeks before i broke it off, he said he never ever wanted to get married and then when i said id have to break up with him at some point because i did at some stage in my life, he proceeded to tell me the type of guy i would marry.
i gave him a couple of weeks breathing room, and then we still saw each other in social environments and we didnt talk much, but he was always leaving as soon as possible. i txt him to see if we were alright, that i meant what said about being friends, and i got no reponse. its been 6 months and the last 2 (since the txt) he turns around and goes the other way when he sees me.
2006-10-24 15:55:26 · 15 answers · asked by Ivy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im asking because i was hoping we could go back to friends (yeah i know its unlikely, but we were good friends before)
2006-10-24 16:01:31 · update #1
Honestly I don't think he had a right to be mad in the first place because he kind of led things there on his own. He is just being a baby, probably regretting what he said and avoids having to be around you because he does not want to admit he is wrong. Just go on with your life and let him be, if you guys have been friends that long he will eventually come around.
2006-10-24 16:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by pan2fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he did you a favor by getting angry-that tell you that he is not the man for you-anyway how do he know what kind of man you will marry-at lest it is not him-if he is still crossing the street so that he don't have to speak to you maybe now he can see what he lost-oh well tough titty but the milk is still good-at lest you don't have to be worried with a man that is so small and petty-stop texting him-you look like you are running him down-I know that you are not that desperate for a man-he is not for you,can't you see that-what he is doing is child play he need to grow up.a grown man don't turn around and go the other way to keep from saying hi,how are you these days,nice to see you again-now you need to stop and think-use your head for more than a hat rack.
2006-10-24 23:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by brown sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up right? Then move on. Sometimes things don't end with a big hug and a boatload of closure. You did the right thing because you were spinning your tires waiting for this guy to decide on a future. Don't worry about how he feels. That is his deal now... you need to take care of yourself and put your life in a place where you will be ready when you meet a nice guy that actually wants a future with you. Let this guy go... move on!
2006-10-24 23:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ivy hi: no he dont. because anger does not get any were
and I recconmend that you better explain right away to him
just by simply saying " please controll it now be nice too
belive in what people do say " dont be hateful guy" or give your
boyfriend an warning< if you an't man enought to be with then
we has no choice > go ahead walk away teach an lession!
at lease think about this first
2006-10-24 23:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have a right to be angry. You are doing what makes you happy and trying to accomplish what you want to in life. You two obviously werent meant for each other.
2006-10-24 22:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Melinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he should not be angry --- either decide you are the lady for him or get over you
at this point he wants you in his life but is not prepared to consider a commitment
2006-10-24 23:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor ditums got hurt feelings... He doesn't want to get married ever... You do... He doesn't want to be a spouse, now he doesn't want to be friends.
I guess he was hoping to have sex with you as a "friend" and then dump you...
2006-10-24 23:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isn't even angry. Apparently he has decided that you two no longer have a relationship. If you didn't see yourself spending your life with him then move on, he apparently has. doesn't necessarily mean he is angry with you.
2006-10-24 22:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's afraid to commit, send him a message and tell him if he is your friend that it's not very nice to ignore you.
2006-10-24 23:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's angry. I think he's hiding something in the closet.
2006-10-24 23:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋