well ive been seein this gurl for a few months but shes really attatched and i dont know how to let her go gently i like her but im not feeln it any more like sex is not even an interrest to me with her any more (yeah i know im goin nutz i think) should i mess around on the side bc theirs no way she will find out bc the people i know she doesnt or is that worse? help a brotha out!!
2006-10-24 15:51:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave her. let her find a better guy...
2006-10-24 15:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
theres no gentle way to break up with a girl!! but if you dont want to be with her anymore then leave her because you're just holdin her and yourself from havin a relationship with someone that feels the same towards each other. no cheatin is never good, it'll just make you look like the bad person in the relationship. just leave her before you mess with someone else even if she dont know the peoples you do, it'll still have the same reaction so just leave her!!!
2006-10-24 16:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by GigglesGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nicely let her go. Don't cheat on her, that's bad. Don't think you'll get away with cheating cuz you won't. It'll haunt you. As for the original question...player with player is fine cuz that's all you both want is to play. But, player with someone who wants a real relationship-not good.
2006-10-24 15:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know how you really feel about her cuz if she really like you and you go and cheat that's going to make her want to take it out on every other guy cuz shes goingg to feel like she put her all into a relationship and all he did was cheat just tell her how you feel.Its goin to be worth it
2006-10-24 15:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not see someone else on the side until you have talked to her. Be up front and honest with her. Trust me, she'll be hurt, but if she finds out that your cheating on her, she'll be even more hurt. Good luck!
2006-10-24 16:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jeanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be straight forward with her then move on she can not make stay with her it your life,you are not happy leave her.she will find some one else and you will find someone else to.just go behind her back before letting her know what going on.
Good Luck
2006-10-24 16:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop playing w/ girls hearts. one day you are going to really fall in love and you are going to get a piece of your own actions. and then you will see what love is really about.....but if you get an STD,like Aids, Gonorrhea, syphilis,chlamydia or any of these terrible terrifying viruses, you won't see what love is,you'll be a lonely sick man at home wishing you could turn back time !!!
2006-10-24 16:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by hugabug72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing for he really is for you to just end it with her. it will hurt her more to find out you are with another woman than it would for you to just break up with her. just be honest with her and tell her you just aren't into her anymore, she may be attached to you but she'll get over it. that way you are free to live your life how you want , with who ever you want and you don't have to worry bout her finding out, or lying to her, no reason to make it harder than it has to be.
2006-10-24 15:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no being a playa is not bad trust me i have had many friend that got that way and have a great meridge and family(sarcasm) yes being a playa is bad dude or if it wasnt those people be happy and have a family
2006-10-24 15:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by francisco_j_c_o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to be with her anymore then leave her, give her the chance to find the guy that's right for her.
2006-10-24 16:05:31 · answer #10 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She deserves to know the truth,and move on to a better man.Don't play with her emotions...Be honest with her,grow some balls and tell her!!!
2006-10-24 15:58:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋