I've been good friends with a great guy for like a year and a half, he calls me his sister. Recently I've found myself thinking of him more than a brother. (He's never showed any romantic interest.) i just started seeing someone and i told my friend about my new relationship. Well my friend says he wants to meet my boyfriend and all that. Well thursday my friend calls me and says let me take you to lunch, he's never done that. When I show up he's in his boxers and then while he's getting dressed in front of me he says, does your new boyfriend take you to lunch like i'm doing, do you really like him. i said, well he likes my daughter that's what matters. he said, i like your daughter too, and i'm not your boyfriend. does he like me, or what. what do you think? thankyou
2006-10-24 15:01:56 · 10 answers · asked by Selena Jade's Mommy 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
he sounds like not only a very good friend, but concerned about you and your daughter, not very many men take the time for that. he sounds like he likes you a lot. ask the question to him, not wanting to mess up friendship, but you have feelings does he also, time it right and ask, show how you care about him. hope it works for you. gl.
2006-10-24 15:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by donna r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having a relationship with this guy you call your boyfriend and the important thing is he likes your daughter then you are not being fair to that guy and need to stop the relationship before you hurt him-you ,without saying it let your friend know you have no feelings for this guy. First-ask your friend-be bold for as long as you think theres a chance with him since you obviously want more than just being friends-your heart is closed to feelings for any other guy .and you'll be stuck in never getting anywhere place. No way to make a judgement if your friend likes you as more than a friend for dressing in front of you could have been a tease to show what you could have or he feels that comfortable around you as a friend. Since you do not wish to be stuck ask your friend and since I think he is a good friend he'll undrstand if he has no other feelings except friendship(that's to be cherished too).
2006-10-24 22:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello friend... Here's my very humble opinion:
1. Your friend is kinda "jealous". You did state that He's never shown any romantic interest. Well maybe he really cares about you, like your brother. Maybe He's begun thinking that now that you got a boyfriend, you won't be as close to him as you have. It happens. Just imagine how you would feel if all of a sudden He got a girlfriend, how would you feel? Maybe, in his brotherly-love, He's concerned that your new boyfriend is not good for you or your daughter. If so, thank Him. There aren't many people who give you caring love/brotherly love without really being family, for free. Or maybe
2. He really does feel something for you. You know how many stories there are of people who are in love and fake it behind a brotherly-love type of thing. In that case, I wouldn't know how to advise you because I thought I went through something like that. I ended up asking this "good friend" of mine if what I thought was true. I just scared him away. I didn't find any relief in speaking my heart because once I lost Him, I figured it would have been better to keep him at least as a friend.
Best of Luck, friend...
2006-10-24 22:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by Magy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a very good friend who acted jealous every time I dated. If we went anywhere, he would hold my hand and act like we were "together." We were attracted to one another also, but we never got together and did anything about taking it further. There are relationships like that, and you will probably hear from other women who have had this happen to them as well. It is a titillating and a turn on experience without the sex.
2006-10-24 22:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion: Hes is soooo jealous!
Anyways if he has never addressed you in a romantic way and NOW he is doing it, it seems like he's liked you for a while, but he wanted to wait for the right time. But now that you have a boyfriend he's being rushed to get to you.
2006-10-24 22:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by I love Kevin Costner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience there is no such thing as a strait guy who likes a friend who's a girl as a "sister", or anything else other than a girl friend for that matter. Something sounds off to be.
2006-10-24 23:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by zuff101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you but is trying to hint around it. Or maybe he might be just a little defensive due to the fact that theres another man coming into your life. Just wait a little bit and see if he's acting out of jealousy or he genuinely has feelings for you!!!
2006-10-24 22:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by Shena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well with men it is kinda hard to figure them out. Sometimes when they feel like they may lose your friendship they react differently. I would just come staight out and ask him what is going on? Does he like you, or is he jealous.
2006-10-24 22:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by ktpt 4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, either your friend is very comfortable around u as a friend, or trying to get u interested. i know, polar opposites, but thats the case
2006-10-24 22:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say. You might just have to ask him.
2006-10-25 01:26:09 · answer #10 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋