My bf was at the pool and he was supposibly running and ran into this girl in a pink bikini [ i was not there]...while he had a *****! the girl turned around and just smiled and said "hey! what's ur name?!" He said that he had a ***** cuz he was thinking of me, but i doubt that! He also said that because we live so far away from eachother, he mite accidentally hug another girl, thinking it mite be me! Should i be mad? or should i let it go?
2006-10-24 14:52:06 · 14 answers · asked by annetteXskye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hum... well i think that if you say that you were not there at this time ,and you were told this story ,you should believe it ,you can not know if u were not there , and the number one key to long lasting love is TRUST. If you do not TRUST this person and doubt then yopu should try to move on ,because If...... you dont trust now????,and except his answer,in the future you will just feel worst ,and will be so much ...more confused,if you dont trust now ,you will never have peace of mind or peace in this relationship. If you TRUST then believe and dont give him a hard time ,and try to understand the situation even though it might be hard cause you were far apart at this time ,Only you know this person ,no matter what anyone tells you ,only you know best , i wish u the best of luck :)
2006-10-24 15:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by Miss questions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BabyGirl, based on your ???? u and your bf seem to be really young and he seems to be very immature. Why else would he tell u something so ridiculous. Take it from a woman with experience.......don't be mad at him and also don't let it go.....LET HIM GO!!!!! At least until the 2 of u grow up a little bit more. P.S. I've tried my hand at several long distance relationships and they NEVER worked out.......move on sweetie
2006-10-24 15:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lishi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, there is no reason that your man should be doing anything with anyone. I think the whole "thinking of you" is a crock, a cover up. If he can't wait to be around you, is it really worth it? Can you really trust him? Think it thru before you make any rash decisions.
2006-10-24 14:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Luckie_21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you even know about the story, I'm assuming he told you, you may want to extend him the courtesy of trust. Let it go. ....but I don't know about that accidental hugging bit.
2006-10-24 14:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by Omni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO you should be. How could he do things accidently, and pretending they were you, thats pretty funny actually. How far away are you guys from each other, If you don't see him very often?
2006-10-24 15:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Wishineverynight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i am sorry to say, but you need to kick him to the curb. all that is b***s**t. my man thinks about me too, but never in a way like that and definitaly not in public. and there would be no excuse for him hugging another girl.
2006-10-24 14:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by ShyGirl_87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mad because he did not have a hardon thinking of your.. he was looking at the pink bikini and thinking how he was going to get her to take it off...
2006-10-25 13:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are other fish in the sea. He doesn't sound like such a good guy.
2006-10-24 14:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by floridapammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let HIM go. Tell him you might f@uck someone else and think it was him. See what he says then.
2006-10-24 14:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to service him a little more often...
2006-10-24 14:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋