2006-10-24 14:48:43 · 11 answers · asked by Chris c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends if these guy are really just her friends then you have to believe her. you can't go around being jealous so soon in the relationship.
2006-10-24 14:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is so wrong? How does trust come into play. What has she done. Is she flirting, or just enjoy talking with the guys? Were these friends on the scene before you. Remember, you do not own her. If she had wanted any of them she would not have chosen you. If you have hard evidence that she is not behaving in a decent manner then speak to her about it. Don't be too jealous. Sometimes relationships are ended because of the other partner's jealousy.
2006-10-24 15:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by enigma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with them also so you get a chance to know them before you judge them. As a girl who also has many guy friends, I would NEVER think of being anything more than friends with them. Once you see how she acts with them, you'll realize you have nothing to worry about. Also, consider it a good thing. Girls who hang out with mostly guys (for the most part) are very mellow and do not like to get caught up in the drama that can happen when you're friends with many other girls. Guys are just easier to get along with. Plain and simple..be happy you're not dating a drama queen.
2006-10-24 14:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i don't hang out with a bunch of guys but i don't have female friends and the two people i really talk to or trust are guysand i love my boyfriend dearly no matter what the situation and either one of them can come between that. as for trust i tell my boyfriend mostly everything and he knows my where abouts at all times. too bad i can't say the same about him.
2006-10-24 14:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by slimchuckie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already distrust her you're not off to a good start. But, I do have some female friends with a lot of guy friends, typically, they take a step back from the "friendliness" with guys when they are a in serious relationship out of respect or until their boyfriends can become good friends with the guys.
2006-10-24 14:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by Omni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just one of those things that you have to learn to trust her.
I mean shes going out with you so she has a thing for you otherwise she'd hook up with her other guy friends.
If one of my boyfriends didnt trust me around other guys, i would have to leave him. They are my friends and one person isnt going to change everything. Sure i'll spend time with him but i will also want to keep my friendships with all the other guys.
Just think as it as this was shes going out with you, so you need to learn to trust her b/c thats a key part in making things work.
Just let her live her life and i guess follow the flow.
2006-10-24 14:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by dreamscrushed 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, this is something that happened to my boyfriend when we started dating and all i can tell you is that if she has affinity with guys you two are going to get along very well and with time you will probably meet her guy friends and start trusting her and her friends...you will also end up being their friend anyways.
2006-10-24 14:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by groovybubs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's devoted to you & not her guy friends then she's totally committed to you. But if she's more interested in what they're doing & thinking then she's not right for you or ready to be a couple with someone....good luck
2006-10-24 14:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anna Banana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i don't think you should be with her if you are so paranoid i mean like girls are aloud to have other friends that are guys just as much as guys are aloud to have girls as their friends! you need to trust her more
2006-10-24 14:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by se_rocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't gain it you will only be hurt.
2006-10-24 14:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋