i feel so helpless, and think about running away starting a new life somewhrere with a new identity. get a new social security number or something. this could be with or with out the kids. any one else feel like this.. my dr. told me this was passive suicidal thoughts...
2006-10-24 14:48:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
almost every day anymore
2006-10-24 14:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by Diana S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Passive suicidal thoughts? To run away? It sounds like you have simply forgot what you enjoyed doing before the kids came along. Why do you feel helpless? What can YOU do to change those feelings? If someone is abusing you, then get legal help. If you are abusing yourself, then get emotional help. If your not sure, then get some spiritual help! Take it from someone who knows, DON'T leave the kids behind unless you feel absolutely unable to care for them. Perhaps you should just take a "girls only" vacation, even if only for a day. Find a supportive friend...one that shares your moral values and disucuss it with her. DON'T make any rash decisions! Get on anti-depressants if your Dr. recommends it. LOOK for the good in everything...there is ALWAYS a silver lining. It's just hard to find sometimes....It can be fun to look for it though!
2006-10-24 14:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by Texanborn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to speak with a professional. Sounds like your doctor could be right! Irrational thoughts such as "running away" and even going as far to consider new identities may suggest a chemical imbalance or severe depression on your part. Are you married? Is it due to problems with your marriage? Is your husband or partner abusive? Bored with your life? Do you feel trapped? You need to be honest with a professional so they can help you and help figure out why you are feeling this way and how to change your life around so you can be happy. You may need to be on medication for a while, but I would not jump at the chance. For a lot of people, pills don't fix your life, they just make it easier to deal with so you don't have to change. I really hope you seek help and I am praying for you!
2006-10-24 14:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by .*AnNa*. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most mothers feel that ocassionally because motherhood is a hard job, although a good one.
Get on anti depressants if you need to. Don't let the thoughts over run your mind. Take some time for yourself. Get together with friends, get a hobby, join a club anything to have outside interests.
Take the baby for a walk...etc
2006-10-24 15:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes I kinda feel like I am trapped. Like I am not the person I was before marriage and two kids. But I think it is a normal feeling especially if you are a stay at home mom(i am). What I usually do is go out on my own and try to do something I enjoy, which is usually shopping or occasionaly going to the gym.I always feel better afterwards.
2006-10-24 14:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by francesca e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell ya who don't feel like that. I feel like that somedays. Its not suicidal its just caused from being over whelmed and men don't help things any. I felt that way today. Half the week things are glorius and happy and then boom something happens. For me its my husband wanting me to have all the responsibility in our realationship. Sometimes it would of been a whole lot easier for me to raise our son and tell him to hit the road.
2006-10-24 14:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by mistiful2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are just fansying it, nothing wrong with that...But if you are really contmeplating doing that, then ask yourself if you have the courage to face the difficulties....Running away is rarely the solution to our problems, but sometimes you have the chance your life in a major way in order to turn things around, you get it?
2006-10-24 18:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you lots families wade via such arguments with various ranges. fairly often mothers can experience jealousy a pair of son/daughters companion. exceedingly while they understand that the companion they're with 'is the single'. mothers often experience that their toddler has been taken from them and their dating should not be the comparable. they have spent years raising you, nurturing you, comforting you and having you to themselves. you would be able to desire to seperate the topics. Your spouse sounds very accomodating and that i think she has tried her ultimate inclusive of your mom yet years of abuse can boost till the sentiments won't be able to be stored in from now on. My suggestion may be to nevertheless have a dating inclusive of your mom, she is your mom in spite of everything. in case you clarify on your mom once you confer together with her or see her then your spouse isn't to be stated. Then she will't say terrible issues approximately her that harm you. you are able to contain your toddlers so she would not experience exceeded over of their lives the two. i'm particular your spouse might comply with this as she has a top to make certain her relatives inspite of wether you get on with them. i think your mom might comply with this. If she would not then she is possibly being vindictive. you additionally can see a therapist the two jointly (with mom) or on your man or woman. you're caught inbetween 2 females you adore and it may be frustrating for you. solid luck with all of it :)
2016-10-02 22:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by laseter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do occasionally but then I think how much I love my family and how much my daughter needs me and then I have to make myself come back down to earth. It just wouldn't be worth it in the long run.
2006-10-24 14:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by lil_momo2003 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think about running away every day
2006-10-24 14:51:06 · answer #10 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't say but how long since your last child was born? if 1 year or less...it would be more abnormal if you DIDN'T have this feeling
2006-10-24 14:53:15 · answer #11 · answered by Linda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋