no i am not ugly, guys tell me i am attractive, then usually abandon me, guys fall all over me and then walk away, i've never even had a relationship except with some guy friends from high school who were bored and decided to be together out of boredom, which doesn't count, we didn't even like each other in that way. i don't sleep with any of these guys, and i would even not care if they slept with someone else as long as they paid attention to me, how is it that i am alone, always?
2006-10-24 14:47:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not know. Do you have bad breath or body odor? Maybe you do and don't know it. Maybe you are real snooty and stuck-up and don't realize this either. Talk to someone you know that will be absolutely honest with you, preferably a guy. Ask all kinds of questions like about your personality, body odors, if you have a obnoxious laugh or voice and have him watch you and how you act around guys. Good luck! If everything is good about you then maybe guys are afraid of you because maybe you're so cute they are afraid they are not good enough for you,and if they ask you out they will get rejected.
2006-10-24 15:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're alone because, based on the other questions you've asked, that you are a cold *****.
You spend so much time being bitter about being alone that, despite attracting men with your physical beauty, as soon as they get to know your personality they run away as fast as they can.
Have you ever wondered if the problem was YOU and not THEM?
One or two guys might have committment issues, but ALL OF THEM?
Take a hard look in the mirror and think about what you do to drive men away - then get whatever help, advice or self-correction you need to become a happier, more trusting person with less of an axe to grind on others.
2006-10-24 21:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't sweat the small stuff. I know you feel lonely and that sucks, but being with a guy isn't everything. Besides, we're pigs!!
Really though, the worst thing you could do is "Look" for it or try to make it happen, because then you're creating something that isn't real and that really blows. Just keep your pants on, literally and figurativly, and let the chips fall where they may.
Remember, good things come to those who wait!!
2006-10-24 21:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jim C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold out until the right man comes along. From your statement saying that you don't care if they are with someone else as long as you get attention...that says you have low self esteem. People can pick up on how we feel about ourselves, if you don't know your worth how can you expect someone else to. I say forget about guys for a little while...find yourself and learn to love you. Once you feel confident in who you are, and know that you deserve unconditional love THAT's when you should open up to other relationships.
Best Wishes!!!
2006-10-24 21:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey cheer up you prince will come hey did u know that most people usually get married at the age round the 30's or 29s around there!!! you will find a guy later on and soon find out if they really love you!!!!! hey also don't marry a guy who alrady slept w/a women i will make u un comfort able later on in ur life!!!
2006-10-24 21:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by R5T6H9KF 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same boat you are, although i have had relationships in the past. You just havent found the one worthy of your love and trust me once you find it, you'll know. Never cry over the ones that make you cry, and the one thats worth crying over will never make you cry. I'm in love and so is he, but not with me. Hes married to my best friend. Life sucks, you just have to take life as it hits you and sometimes it hurts like hell. But what doesnt kill you will make you strong. Hang in there. If you need someone to talk to, you can talk to me.
2006-10-24 21:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by ~MandiNic~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are lonely huh? Well my daughter is 16 and never had a boyfriend. She is attractive and has a great personality. She wants a boyfriend, and when she finds someone she likes, he usually is already dating someone else. Be patient it will happen, and you will appreciate it all the more!
2006-10-24 21:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by next.... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax...'nothing wrong with you. You are young. It's just plain tough to be patient sometimes, but about the time you quit looking and worrying, the right person may stumble along your pathway.
2006-10-24 21:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi
2006-10-24 21:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by dwight_93 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U haven't found the right guy is all. Don't worry at ur 20's worry at ur 30's
2006-10-24 21:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by Victor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋