...and found out that there is this girl in my classes who I think likes me, or at least has a crush on me...the kicker is, i am 30 and she 12 yrs younger...I don't really reveal my age to many people and if someone asks how old i am, i ask them to guess, and most of people think i'm 22 or 23...how do i tell this girl that I am not really interested in her...not so much because of the age difference, but because i'm just not interested...
2006-10-24 14:44:49 · 10 answers · asked by naisA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont say anything unless she outright expresses intrest some girls are flirty by nature. if she does express intrest just say youre not interested shell get over it. if you say something without her initiation things can be wierd and embarrasing for you both
2006-10-24 14:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by guitar_lady81 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, find out if she likes you or not then tell her that you are in your 30s. She will reveal to you whether she would want to date a person in their 30s. Then you can tell her that you are more attracted to a person your own age.
2006-10-24 22:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just use the everyday things that are said. You could say that although you do get along well with her, you don't feel that way about her and you wouldn't want to lead her on if you wouldn't be commited to the relationship. Good luck, I hope I've helped.
2006-10-24 21:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say that you are not interested...if she can not hadle the truth too bad...If a guy doesn't like me it is no skin off my nose as they say..
2006-10-24 21:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by Fifi Peanutz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a female, i'll have to say that girls get the hint when they are ignored. they also get turned off when guys say really stupid things. good luck.
2006-10-24 21:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mastershake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you try telling her the truth? who knows the 2 of you can become friends???
2006-10-24 21:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by DJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her, u wana kick it with 30 yr old guy, then lets go.
2006-10-24 21:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by NYC-BIGCAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Copy/paste the last few lines of your question and email it to her.
2006-10-24 21:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So tell her you have a commitment else where, and you never break commitments
2006-10-24 21:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you're married
2006-10-24 21:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋