Dated a guy for a few months, we couldn't get serious b/c he wasn't sure is he was moving out of the province so didn't want to start something then break it off. He told me he found himself talking about me to his friends, and he told his parents about me. But he rarely took me out with his friends to parties and such. We spent NY eve together and i've met his close friends once or twice. But i broke up with him cause he wasn't opening up, and he said "I'm the guy, you're suppose to open up first" SHOCKER there.Then he moved away and I told him I miss him,and he said he miss's me too. and that I'm special to him(not in handicapped way , a joke we have ) and he kept asking me "when are you coming to see me" and he's always there for me, and he always wants to see me happy. If i'm down he'll make sure i'm smiling before he leaves(msn, phone ect.) and i just started opening up to him and he said you can talk to me about anything... I want to be with him, but i'm afraid he doesn't
2006-10-24 14:34:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Plus we've been friends with benifits for a while now, on my asking. And he always says, i don't want everything to be about sex .....lol
2006-10-24 14:35:36 · update #1
He doesn't like me for sex, considering he wants to talk rather then do it.... hmmm not that
2006-10-24 14:39:55 · update #2
Believe me I'm not a BOOTY CALL.... if anything he's mine, and I slept with him because I liked him, i'm not going to play games, I hate games and he HATES games as well..... the chase factor we hate, thats why we get along so well. We're upfront and honest.
2006-10-24 14:45:53 · update #3
Doesn't sound like he's ready to commit just yet .... maybe he see's you more as true friend (although with benefits ...lol) and doesn't want to harm the friendship???
If you want him ... pressure him into giving you an answer ... that way either you'll have what you desire or the road will be clear for you to go in search of your soulmate
2006-10-24 14:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not your boyfriend you shouldn't be having sex with him in the first place. you are nothing more than a booty call for when he's in town. he isn't going to open up to you because he does see you as a girlfriend because you slept with him. he isn't going to open up to you and you are wasting your time opening up to a man that doesn't do the same for you. once again you messed up when you slept with him too soon. you should have waited until you had a commitment. now you are wondering if this man is into you the answer is no. sorry to disappoint you. you made yourself too easy and he will go after the first girl that poses a challenge for him and you will not hear from him again.
p.s. if he isn't paying for you to see him don't spend your own money on travel expense. because he'll get the booty for free.
2006-10-24 21:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, he likes you for sex.
2006-10-24 21:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋