Hello people, Im 17 years old and in in the 11th grade...well my problems is that my mom past away 2 years ago..since my mother died i been living with my older sister shes only a year older than me...well i live with her and her boyfriend...now the situation is that i dont even trust my sister anymore because shes aways with him and she never has time for me i feell soo lonly all i have is my boyfrined that i lvoe so much!! he's always puts a smile in my face..and my best friend that always cheers me up..but i wish my sister was different and she also wants to control my life ...she gave me a cingular line with hers and her boyfriend but now she took it away 4 some reason i just dont know why she acts like that she gets mad at me everytime she argues with her man!! abd she also took my computer away too!! please people tell me something im going crazy!!! OoO and i also work why she wants to control mee why!!!! =[
2006-10-24 14:22:45 · 11 answers · asked by meee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
maybe your sister is having a hard time with your loss of your mum and gets comfort from her b/f. i now i lost my mum and dad within six months of each other and my g/f now wife was the only thing that cheered me up give her space and maybe time will fix things up ps sorry 4 your loss.
2006-10-24 14:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister may still be angry over the death of your mother, and feel some resentment for having to assume the role of an adult. Not having experienced the raising of children she has no idea how to discipline or protect. Whats more is that she is only slightly older than you. You only have a couple more years with her so try and make the best of it until you can go out on your own.
2006-10-24 21:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please remember that she is only 18. Just because you are legal doesn't mean that you are an adult in any way, shape or form. Maybe you have an aunt or uncle, you didn't mention your father. What about grandparents? Maybe just concern yourself with graduating from high school and getting financial aide or a scholarship and live at a dorm. Find your own way. Just use this as a stepping stone for greater things. But, you have to suck it up and take the responsibility to get yourself out of a bad situation.
2006-10-24 21:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think She needs space, me and my brother get along very well when we dont have to live together. If we have to, its like cats and dogs. always getting on the oters nervs. And also, maybe you siter is struggling with your Mom having left you, but she's holding it in and that sadness and irritation of resposability being left on her comes out on you.
I dont know you fanacial state or anything, but I think even a trip away for sometime coudl do you both good or moving tout o you own apartment.
I think She might feel like the "Mom" respisabilty is left on her and she isnt old enough or prepared to be a Mum but doing her best and most of the time wanting to control you so she has to think less of it all.
hope stuff works out for you 2. good luck!^^
2006-10-24 21:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get the whole picture but I'm wondering If theres another family member you could live with? I don't think its a good idea to be living with your sister, I don't think she has a very stable life either.
Do you have anyone in your family to talk to? a teacher? a social worker? it seems like you and your sis could use counseling on a different level.
Where's Dad?
2006-10-24 21:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by talk4now2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When do you turn 18? I say once you're 18 move out or move to a dorm on campus if you are going to college.
2006-10-24 21:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose the simple thing is to ask her face to face why she does things and why she is like she is.
Tell her how YOU are feeling and how you feel about the whole situation and what is gettin to you.
She is after all your sister
KEEP TALKING
2006-10-24 21:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit down and tell your sister all of how you feel.you only have one more year before you can start a life of your own,haang in there,it's not that long.good luck
2006-10-24 21:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by granny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk to her maybe she has some sort of problems frustrating her...remember she is the only person that you really have now. and for her to take care of you all alone in't easy...
2006-10-24 21:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by kenneth x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ill talk to you ill cheer u up im athletic 17 also
2006-10-24 21:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by dwight_93 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋