I started to like this best friend of mine three months ago, and I'm just not sure if she also likes me that way or not. We still talk a lot and hang out sometimes. I've shown many signs for her but she doesnt seem like she's getting them, neither showed any to me. However I'm planning to tell her how I really feel a month from now but I'm not sure if I should do that or not. At least I'm just hoping that our friendship can still last even if she rejects me. Any advice is appreciated!
2006-10-24 14:13:43 · 9 answers · asked by yaoliu89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
About four months ago she told me she hasn't given up on guys yet but now she never talks about it, so I guess it's kinda a good sign
2006-10-24 14:17:47 · update #1
Just ask her. Let her know if she does not feel the same it is okay to still be friends. LL.
2006-10-24 14:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by italliansweety67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance you never know she might be the one you are looking for the worst she can say is I am not into that way lets stay friends. She may feeling the same way but since your good friends she might be thinking to herself no he doesnt like me that way so thats probably why she hasnt said anything. So you tell her your feelings and I bet she will get the hint next time. Good luck.
2006-10-24 14:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I were friends since the 8th grade.Im 19 now. As we got older we both started having feelings for each other but neither of us said anything for the longest time. I am very shy and I know for a fact that I would have NEVER said anything if he hadnt. He did though and weve been together since. All I can say is that you will never know until you try
2006-10-24 14:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by dsgg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is truly your friend, she will either accept or tell you that she would rather not ruin your friendship and your friendship will continue as normal. You should tell her how you are feeling. She may be your soulmate but, you will never know until you take a shot at your destiny!
2006-10-24 14:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way you can find out is to try. even if she is not interested you can stay friends, girls usually take such things as huge compliments (especially from someone who knows us well) besides she may really be into you and not catching your signals because she does not want to get her hopes up.
give it a go
2006-10-24 14:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you guys are best friends then you should know if she likes anyone right now, if she hasn't told you anything about any guy, then you should go for it. just go straight to the point and ask her out. good luck!!!!!!!
2006-10-24 14:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by D.L.G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me was in same thing like you but i told him i liked him and we got closer you should tell you how you feel about her when you think its the right time and stuff and you can never know it can go farther than friends
2006-10-24 14:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by ..::pimpin azn grl::.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, girls pretend they don't get it to spare your feelings.
good luck!
2006-10-24 14:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait this out...
2006-10-24 14:16:24 · answer #9 · answered by non-curious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋