I feel lonly?

Question

I am home alone all the time... I am shy at school so I do not go and try to make friends
I am sitting infront of the computer but I also don't have any friends on my yahoo!messenger

I feel so lonly and alone I feel like I have no one
I feel empty\

What should I do

Sorry I didn't mean to put it on religions it was a mistake

Answer 1

Try this. Go out, talk to people, make some friends, and say at least "how are you?". People are like mirrors; if you smile at them, most of them will smile you back. Sometimes it is really hard to do things that you don't want to do or you don't do normally. Doing what you really hate to do is like concurring your inner fear: the fear to meet and talk to strangers. Don't get depressed and feel lonely.

Answer 2

Maybe it stems from childhood when most of us are told to be seen and not heard. Do you know many folk feel lonely even when in a room full of people it is not uncommon but is is certainly a horrible way to feel. Maybe you have a problem with your own self esteem and would benefit from finding common ground by joining for example the local reading group where you discuss books and the like. This will build up your self confidence and hopeful find others that have the same interests as you. As an engineer you must have studied a great deal and perhaps you were considered a swat and did not give yourself the luxury of having friends, you can change all that ...get out and about. Good luck with overcoming your problem and remember that many people have the same feelings of loneliness it is something you have to work at.

Answer 3

Maybe because you are mean and cruel?


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061025130703AAeDRX4&r

And when do you think a girl should be kicked “there”, and get all that suffering and damage? How about if it was the other way around?
You will only kick a boy there if he is not expecting it, why would be? Boys usually don’t hit back because they are not like girls. But someday you will get unlucky and you will be beaten up, and there would be nothing you can do to stop it! Or even worse, he may report you instead and you will be expelled, and if the law gets involved you will go to juvenile jail or if you are lucky to a boot camp.

You should be ashamed of yourself.
You think it is funny and it is a turn on. How stupid and cruel can women be?
Do you know how damaging that can be, it is a long list, but to keep it short he can have infertility problems, hormonal changes, or lose a testicle(yes not that rare)! It is not just hitting; in that private place and especially done by a woman, men usually feels sexually abused(even if does not show his feelings). It is a sex offense. Not to mention the emotional trauma.
That was not even self-defense, that’s revenge. That should only be used if someone is trying to rape you or kill you, only emergencies, only extreme cases of self-defense. If you do that in other situations, then you are 10 times worse than the guy you kicked.
If you think is funny to hurt and damage men like that, then you don’t deserve to be loved by any man or to have a family.
How about if it was the other way around?
Want to see the long list of damage, go see my answer, if you care.

Answer 4

I hope you don't take this in a desensitized way but I really encourage you to watch the movie CAST AWAY. This is the most AWESOME movie on the planet for a person feeling isolated and lonely.

Another thing I would advise you to do is get to know yourself. Really! Find out who you are as a human being:

with a soul,
a heart that beats,
blood that flows,
lungs that inhale,
a mouth to smile,
eyes to see,
ears to hear,
body parts to touch,
a brain to think about what makes you special.
Learn to like yourself....
Learn not to be AFRAID of silence
PEACE,
PRIVACY,
Learn to TRUST YOURSELF
learn to LAUGH at yourself.
TALK
When you're alone
CRY when you feel like it
Learn to LOVE
YOU.


Peace... Been there.........

Answer 5

Goody you are young. All of us felt this way when we were your age. I know that I did.

Give it some time, things will change for the better. I promise.

A lot of the other kids are feeling the same way.

Just be your self and treat others with love and respect and people will be drawn to you.

Realise that many of the people you meet are feeling the same kinds of feelings. Keep a smile ready for those you meet and come in contact with and they will start to look forward to seeing the nice girl with the friendly smile.

Most of all remember that God loves you and thinks your great just the way that you are.

We all do to.

Love and blessings Don

Answer 6

Being lonely doesn't necessarily mean that you are alone; there are people around you, if you are too shy to say something, how about a smile then, that helps sometimes. I do hope you feel better. And I want you to know that Jesus loves you and so do we.

Answer 7

Whoa... dude, i was about to post the same exact question. i'm also way shy at school and am not the most social person. i've decided to at least look for some online friends (I just got the internet at my house; parents, go figure!) and am just looking for people who share some of the same interests as me. just someone my age who i can talk to. if your interested, drop me an e-mail at [e-mail]. maybe we could become friends?

Answer 8

go make some friends at school.

just look for things that other people have in common with you.

i met most of my friends in the chess club.

i would suggest that you find a club or after school activity to get involved in.

Answer 9

I ask our Lord Jesus Christ to this evening send to you His beautiful angels that will envelop you in their loving wings. He is always there for you, He has a good plan for you. God bless you and may He comfort you tonight.

Answer 10

i know exactly what you're feeling...i'm shy too...I was like that for years...no one liked me...but i got better throughout the years...IM me and tell me about your problems cuz i have a lot too i can try to help you