ok i know this is a stupid question... not any of you guys would be able to accurately guess my future, but it doesnt hurt to try, rite? (well, cept for the 5 points they took away...)
i'm in eighth grade right now, and people around me are already going out/boyfriends/girlsfriends and such. but i do NOT have a history of BFs, nor will i ever will in this grade i think.
so i'm thinking of high school. everyone says once ur in high school, you'll be able to get a date whether you're pretty or hot or not, because you have a lotta dances/prom/homecoming and stuff like that. but i dont know whether to believe them.
i mean, i'm average weight, just-a-bit-taller-than-average height, average prettiness... etc.
i mean, i have straight, black, a bit-longer-than-shoulder-length hair, a reasonably oval face, brown eyes (people say they're chocolate-brown), normal lips.. etc.
does prettiness really matter? do guys actually like a girl bcuz of her personality?
HELP! i know its a lot of questions
2006-10-24 13:57:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will undoubtedly find a guy to go out with eventually.
And many of us guys are in the same boat as you.
On your ending quaestion:
If guys don't know your personality to start, they will become interested in you for your looks. Once you become acquainted, however, a nice guy will investigate your personality and come to really like you for WHO you are. At that point looks become less important: more of a perk!
Don't worry though, there's absolutely nothing wrong with YOU.
Good luck; I hope you find what you're looking for!
2006-10-24 14:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by teh_popezorz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not a stupid question and no prettiness shouldn't matter. that person's personality should matter to you the most. it depends on what type of guy you meet. i dont' care what a guy looks like honestly. if he treats me with respect, love, and kindness, then thats good enough for me. don't settle for anything. look for the best. pray about it. you got a long life ahead of you. get in high school at least before you worry about guys a whole lot. most guys now will try to use you for sex and that's just not right.
2006-10-24 14:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't judge yourself on whether or not you have a boyfriend. Just be yourself and your time will come. It may not be in high school but after you get out into the real world, you'll see it's much easier to meet people and you will find someone...have fun in school and don't sweat the small stuff!
2006-10-24 14:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by woohoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your desciption makes you seem like a beutiful women most of the things youre friends asay are true in a way you have to go to events at your school in oreder to meet certain guys you may or may not like you should see the many possibilities their are at your school guys will probaby like you if they get to know you although it seems that everyone has a relationship history they probably dont and are trying to make themselves feel better for tose who do thats great but you shouldnt worry about it and besides you sound like a wonderful person to guys yes your looks do matter and how you keep your hair but thats for most guys also you have to have an okay personality that they sorta like cause if you gaught looks have of your personality depends on whether they like you I wish you good luck in finding a boyfriend
2006-10-24 14:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 04:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you will get a date. You sound like a nice person and yes some guys still look for a girl with a good personality. Don't worry you have it in the bag. Just wait!!
2006-10-24 14:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by BabyPrincess REAL JAMAICAN QUEEN 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your in 8th grade for petes sake!! u dont need to have a history of boyfriends y? because your young! a guy will come your way just have fun!!! now a days teens dont enjoy life being single and having fun with there girlfriends cuz there to worried about boys!! a boy will soon come your way it can be years from now when u find the right one!!! for now be a teen have fun with the girls!!! worry about guys later and when your old enough date around...Dont sleep around just dates ok? well bye
2006-10-24 14:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok... First of all, you are WAY to young to worrie about never going on a date... In my highschool, even the most ugly, fat, or anything else girl went on at least a few dates, now i know hearing this isn't good for your self-esteam...
now, for the boys, in highschool, most of them are idiots and realy do look at how a girl looks, rather then anything else... the problem there, most of the girls are the same way in highschool...
i'm 26 now, and when i was in high school, never once dated some one that was in highschool... i never dated at all till i was in 12th grade...
now, what i would suggest... make friends with a couple of boys... even at that age, most boys, would change from being friends with a girl to dating them...
so make some more friends that are guys... while your being friends with them, find one you would like to date, and then ask them. trust me, boys of that age, are scared out of their mind about asking a girl out and would stay a 'friend' for years befor working up the courage... so ask them...
That's my advice...
2006-10-24 14:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to do what everyone else is doing or say there doing and learn to be yourself,you'll have plenty of time to date when it's your time.Just be yourself.Live life by your terms.
2006-10-24 14:03:21 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if that's true yet, I'm a freshman in high school and I still haven't gotten a bf but I want one so bad its killin me inside!
2006-10-24 14:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋