hes in all my classes, and he flirts with me ALL the time!
hes totally hot
but my friend is totally into him
and hes totally into her
i dont want to like him,,,
its just that i can't help it
i haven't told anyone
today at recess, she was going around wearing his sweater
and i was totally heart broken
shes so lucky to have him
im so confused
and when my best friend asked me what was wrong, i said, nothing
i feel so guilty... i tell my bff EVERYTHING!!
why am i keeping this simple secret from her??
i haven't told anyone yet
he doesn't know how i feel
and, hopefully, neither does enyone else
what should i do???
HELP!!
2006-10-24 13:50:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Was it a wool or polyester sweater? Their relationship is serious if it was wool. Stay away.
2006-10-24 13:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by Puppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just sit back and wait it out .... the average school relationship lasts like what 3 weeks? This way, when he and her hit the rocks, you can be the supportive one who is there for him ... and kissing the heck out of him when he least expects it. If he and her last for a very long time, they have something special and you probably wouldn't have stolen him anyways.
Aloha
2006-10-25 14:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by Genji_77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The phrase usually goes, "Bros before hoes." But that applies to guys choosing their friends over girls. It works for the reverse too. If your friend was into him first, she's got dibs. I know it's hard, but my advise is to not say anything to either of them. If you really feel like you've gotta get it out, write it down...like in a journal. If you bring it up to either of them, it will just cause trouble. Good luck!
2006-10-24 13:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to tell your friend as long as you make it known that you dont plan to act on those feelings. if it get too hard, especially since he flirts with you all the time say to him, look, i really like you, but my friend does too, and in the intrest of our friendship id appreciate it if youd stop tempting me
2006-10-24 13:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by kristin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell your bff that she is making you kind of heart broken because you have a crush on this guy and you guys should work it out and talk to each other and let her now how you feel and as far as the guy goes you should talk to him tell him how u feel and see how he feels
2006-10-24 13:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by aaamanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's yo friends man so you just have to deal wit it. And your secret is safe with me. good luck
2006-10-24 13:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kia H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself. Believe me, there will be another before the school year is out.
2006-10-24 13:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just move on! You're friendship with your friend would be ruined and there's a big chance he doesn't like you so you'd ruin it with him too!
2006-10-24 13:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, i thought u only have recess in elementary schools, how old r u?
2006-10-24 13:52:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD! I HAVE THE EXACT SAME PROBLEM. ok, that probably doesn't help, like anything, but, you have my support.
luck
2006-10-24 13:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋