Why do men even approach girls if they are just going to lead you on, do men have hearts? I am starting to get bitter, act strange, and hate men. Are men and women really meant to be togther? How can human beings treat each other this way?
2006-10-24 13:41:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't have sex with any of these men,they don't even wait for it, they run, i would be more than willing to be his grilfriend even if he had sex with other women
2006-10-24 14:22:19 · update #1
The guy either got what he wanted, which was sex... or he didn't.
Don't invest your heart in a two week fling using sex, you'll definately get dumped.
2006-10-24 13:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
MEN NORMALLY SAY WHAT SOUNDS GOOD TO GET SEX AND IF ANY WOMAN IS DUMB ENOUGH TO GIVE TO ANY MAN IN SUCH SHORT TIMING HE'LL LEAVE
HE HAS NOTHING ELSE TO WAIT FOR
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORD
WHY SAY I AM NOT A HOE I AINT EASY AND THEN LET HIM POKE U THE NEXT 3-4 DAYS AFTER
YEA MEN AND WOMEN WERE MENT TO BE TOGETHER WOMAN AND WOMAN WERE NOT NITHER WAS MEN AND MEN THATS A LIFE OF SIN THAT WILL SURELY LEAD U TO THE PITS OF HAIL
DONT GET WIERD DONT HATE MEN LEARN THE GAME
MAKE EM WAIT AND LET HIM GIVE U MORE THAN THAT SORRY LINE AND DINNER FOR TWO
MAYBE TIME
TIME
DINNER
NO RUSHING
TALK
GOOD CONVERSATION
TIME
AND MORE TIME
EVENTUALLY A COMMITMENT A HOME A CAR AND A FAMILY NOT SEX FIRST THEY ALWAYS
SO MAKE SURE U HAVE EM BEFORE BEFORE U BLESS EM
2006-10-24 20:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by SWEET S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's really normal for you to be feeling this way. yes, some men are in it for only one thing, and those are the ones you need to stay away from. find them out first, then decide if they are worth your time of day. yes, god made Adam and eve, not Adam and Steve. sometimes people, men and women are selfish and only think of their selves. that's where you come into play and choose weather or not they will be a quick friend, or a seasonal friend, or that special one that you know will be there for the rest of your life. don't look, let it come to you. love will hit you when your least expected.love can be a wonderful thing if you let it. have fun with it . you only live once. maybe you need to take a break from the dating scene. good luck
2006-10-24 20:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men do what they do.... some women are just as bad.... The question is 'why do women act so desperate to fall for a guy they just met?'. True relationships take time to develop.... men are usually on the prowell for instant gratification - women are dumb for falling for it (unless they're the same way).
I remember when I dated my husband, I interviewed him!!!! Asked him what he liked, didn't like, relationship with his mom.... I mean why even get to LIKE him if you have basic incompatibility issues.... We laugh about after 20 years....HAH
A great book to read is Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars..... it really does explain the language of the sexes - very interesting, educational and 'very true' book..... I think every young, single person should read this as it will stick with you your entire life.
2006-10-24 20:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by longhats 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because some men are jerks. They also know that girls will believe almost anything. Then they put on a good act and after "having you" a few times they dump you and move on.
2006-10-24 20:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they are not interested in conversation usually. For the record, that´s not my position. I have to say that many men recive the bitter end from the other sex. You just have to screen your candidates better. Good luck... really
2006-10-24 20:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are going for the wrong batch of men. Men who live by bible standards would never treat you that way. Ever heard the phrase "Lookin' for love in all the wrong places"? Good luck.
2006-10-24 20:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by yakimablueyes 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One of the hardest things for women to learn is that men actually operate on an entirely different basis. They do not think like we do. You must learn the male pattern, adapt to it, and be able to find a good guy through it, or you will be victimized by their sexual aggressiveness.
2006-10-24 20:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by Isis 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They WILL do anything to be with you -- but once they've been there (in some cases) is a different story. The chase and conquest is a game that some (very heartless) men play.
2006-10-24 20:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cause they check out if the girl is okay for sex and if she is unwilling they go for another girl. Men mostly go after girls for sex.
Don't worry there are good men.
Good luck and hope you meet good men.
2006-10-24 20:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋