I'm bi and dating my best friend and we'er tring to find a way to tell her mom. Any ideas?
2006-10-24 13:41:36 · 16 answers · asked by Token_Cocoa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
JUST TELL HER DON'T WORRY IF SHE DOESN'T ACCEPT IT RIGHT AWAY SHE WILL SOON ENOUGH!!!
2006-10-24 13:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by Tammi G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how old are you? Hopefully, if she is 18+ her mom will realize that you're old enough to make your own choices. So just give it a shot. When you tell her she may be surprised and upset at first, but soon she'll adapt to it and it will be total normal. I'm not gay or bi myself, but I had a gay friend tell his mom and after awhile, his mom just accepted him for who he is. It's better to tell her mom now, then later. If she finds out the hard way, (someone else telling her) she may be even more upset that her daughter was keeping something from her.
best of luck!
2006-10-24 20:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit her down and tell her. Odds are, she probably already has an idea. When my brother told my mother he was gay it was in the middle of a huge fight over other things. But when he said it she replied "So... what's the big deal? I already know... Is that all this is about?"
Be honest. And be ready for any reaction. Just realize she has her own views on this issue, whether they be yours or not. But she loves her daughter and only wants the best for her.
2006-10-24 20:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by lil_hem_n_va 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My idea is that you seem to already know how your girl's mom will react, so why tell her? Does she have to know? If you think its so important for her to know, then both of you take her to dinner and tell her. If not, then just keep up what you're doing.
If you are ashamed or feel wrong about your relationship, then maybe you should reconsider. If not, do what you need to do to be happy. Your age is a factor, but that's another issue altogether.
TX Guy
2006-10-24 20:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on her mom. Why say anything? Her mom will think it's normal for you two to hang out.You being bi ,well that leaves opens up another question.If some guy comes along later would you leave her for him? Dont say anything. She may not approve and might keep her daughter from seeing you again. Why would you want to tell her anyway.
2006-10-24 20:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by Joan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no special ways to do it sweetie. The people out there in the streets have probably beat you to it! Thats how my mother found about me but, that was okay. I would have liked to tell her myself though, even though she has mixed feelings towards the subject. I wish you luck babe, I really do!
2006-10-24 20:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u really think thats what u both want then let the time tell her parents they will find out eventually just dont go and tell them that will freak them out just enjoy ur friends company and be happy with her when they see u that ur happy with her then they will accept it
2006-10-24 20:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by mrdeeds_1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the parents are accepting and open-minded, they will not accept this. They might not anyway. Just find the right time, and tell her.
2006-10-24 20:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by George 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you dating a guy or a girl be specific not just bi
2006-10-24 20:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe first start talking about something her mom likes and then tell her mom what is going on.
2006-10-24 20:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by Edith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u have tell her mom about it so long as she has accepted it?
2006-10-24 20:43:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋