I met a guy and fell deeply in love with him, he was so sweet, kissing me and playing with my hair and saying I was one of the most attractive women he had ever seen, I am attractive though, but anyway we went to dinner, I hung out at his house, he was so sweet, I was laying in bed playing with his hair, he was crying about his family, so in touch with being sweet to me, then his boss moved him two hours away, then he said he saw another girl, the next week he was back talking to me, now he won't return my calls yet again, do guys ever avoid girls they like? he says he likes being controlled, and i am very passive, could it be my personality? do i have any chance of getting him back? and how?
2006-10-24 13:39:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
vfmswvolt, you hit it right on the nail girl! you are so smart, how old are you? how did you know? his mother died when he was 10, his father did not even take them to the hospital to see her when she wanted to her last dying months, his father denied them a relationship with their mother just because he didn't want it.
to the guy who rudely said i like being avoided, oh please, i clearly said the reason why i liked him is he was the nicest gentlest man i ever met, remember, he avoided me, not the other way around.
to the others, i knew him 4 weeks, he avoided me every other one?
2006-10-24 14:09:28 · update #1
lg 17 email me in a week
thanks j money that helped, peace!
2006-10-24 14:11:49 · update #2
they try not to, but sometimes their courage does not allow them to step up and start interacting with girls that they usually have no trouble talking to. however, i dont think he would have done so many things with you if he didn't like you. I'd say you have a very good chance of getting him back. you should probalby start by talking to him (keep trying, but dont call too much-- maybe hes just busy). talking is usually the best way in these situations
2006-10-24 13:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by Mr.Deeds 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What? Stay away from me!
If he likes being passive, then you have to get more controlling, if you want him back. Of course, he'll probably eventually rebel at the thought of being controlled, but oh well, such is life
2006-10-24 13:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by lowflyer1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think he found a better girl cause he said he wants a girl who is controlling.
You seem a nice girl and I am sure you can find a better and nicer guy.
Good luck
2006-10-24 13:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me know what works cuz im almost in the same situation. it sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too...he is either having too much fun or not really sure what he is wanting. it's best to confront him because once a guy knows...he won't let you go! at least, any good guy wont.
2006-10-24 13:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was just wondering how long you were actually together, sounds like he may of played you . Crying, moving , seeing someone else, being a brat, wanting handcuffs, sounds like he misses his mother. It isn't you it is him.
2006-10-24 13:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by vfwmsvoltz 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because she thinks you don't like her in return that's why she's ashamed and angry because after she tells you she was hoping you would say the same thing and when you didn't she's upset....natrually
2016-05-22 11:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be into S&M, get yourself a latex cat suit and develop an attitude.
2006-10-24 13:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by Puppy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is emotionally unstable.
Or he is such a good player.
2006-10-24 13:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hate to say it, but try to move on.
2006-10-24 13:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i fell sorry for u. u seem so nice..i like u..the answeris likly no..if he found a diffrent girl..if not yes
2006-10-24 13:43:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋