didnt call till the next day. we talked about this fight but never really resolved it. we finally broke up a mnth later. i tried talking to her about it and said that i will get better, and change, she just said that she doesnt have the desire to make it work and doesnt feel the same. she distanced herself from me because she was scared to get hurt like that again. i am sure she still cares for me, but right now she is trying to forget about me so she can move on. i sent flowers with a note saying how i felt about her. got no response until 3 days later, just a thank u online msg. i am not sure what to do now. should i talk to her again and tell her love her and assure her that iwill not hurt her again. we were in love while dating, but noone ever said it. i realized how much i really loved her after the break, but now i dunno what to do. i feel that if i push too hard to get her back, she will just distance herself even more, but also maybe she is waiting for me to show how i feel.
2006-10-24 13:35:41 · 8 answers · asked by iamtheman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should've followed her that night. Never let a girl leave without you it is a sign she is not the most important thing to you argument or not. I don't think you have a chance with her but in that situation I would go and see her and tell her how much you love her and want to try again. If she says no then leave her alone because she is obviously not interested.
2006-10-24 13:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Abs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she will distance herself from you more if you continue to push. The ball is in her court and you have to wait it out or leave it alone. Just express to her that you love her and is willing to change and is sorry for what took place and though you don't want to you will respect her wishes and give her some space. You messed up when you didn't call her. That showed her you didn't care how she feel and she wasn't important. There may have been more than this situation, but for her it was the last one. So give her the time she request so she will either decide she miss and care for you or to be on her own.
2006-10-24 20:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let her walk away? No wonder she feels like you don't care. If your girl EVER walks away, you go after her, no matter what. If you want her back, get down on your knees and BEG for her forgiveness. Tell her you love her, you know you f*cked up, and that you believe she's the one. Tell her you will do ANYTHING it takes to have her back in your life. If that doesn't work, you'll have to try and move on too, there's nothing more you can do.
2006-10-24 20:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, walk away, treat it as a learning experience. She is not interested and if you fight, apparently quite that seriously, so readily, it isn't worth the effort for either of you. It will simply get uglier and uglier. Walk while you still have some dignity.
2006-10-24 20:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by Dane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is that eazy to up set maybe you should let her cool down and the try talking to her.
If it is ment to be for the two of you then it will happen.
2006-10-24 20:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by Preacher's Daughter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you set it free and it comes back it was meant to be, and if it doesn't come back it was never your to begin with..that is something my ex's mother told me, and it is the truth..but see in wasn't the one who ended the relationship, he did...but he told everyone it was me..etc, etc... back off a little if she loves you and you love her it will work it's self out...things have a way of doing that....don't pressure her, eventualy she will come back around..but for now,,do your thing...because she is doing her's..love has a funny way of working thing's out...good luck to you and her..
2006-10-24 20:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by barbara p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space and she'll come to you and if not it wasn't meant to be.
2006-10-24 20:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by wannabefree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard one....I don't even know what to tell you.
2006-10-24 20:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋