I spent a great afternoon Sunday with the guy I have a crush on. We even went at the beach and had lunch together. He invited to his party on Saturday. It's Tuesday and he has not called/@ me yet. Does he expect me to call him or what...Needless to say that he did not kiss me.
2006-10-24 13:29:28 · 10 answers · asked by Frenchie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd like to have guys advice first...
2006-10-24 13:36:26 · update #1
why are girls always in such a hurry? chill out, back off and give him some time. Guys hate clingy girls. He will call you when he's ready to.
2006-10-24 13:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, i hate to tell you, but he has somebody else on the side. He's just giving you a lil bit of play to keep you on the side or keep you around because he likes you. The person he's really into is probably with him right now! He's just keeping you around as a spare tire. He'll spend a little time with you, then he'll spend a little time with her. What do you think he's doing right now? Spending time with her! He'll call eventually to hook up with you again just to keep you around and keep you happy. Then after, he won't call for a couple of days. I should know. Ive played that game before. Ive played 2 guys before and did the same thing. Spent time with the one i loved and spent time with the lover' the spare tire.' Thats what you are,' the spare' Don't hate the playa just the game. Get outta it while you can. The out come isn't good!! I know from experience. Good luck!
2006-10-24 20:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy_in_VA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so maybe he didnt kiss you on the first day..no big deal. So who said they would call...you or him? if you said you would call...by all means call him. if he said he would call you, and he hasnt called you yet, it could be one or a combination of these reasons:
-he dosent want to seem desperate or or rush into calling you right away. he will call you eventually, but he may be shy or unsure when to call you.
-hes not that into you. but that dosent seem to be the case because he asked you to his party Saturday. He did show intrest in you Sunday right?
-he just plain forgot or lost your number. dont take it personally, it happens, and he just dosent want to admit it to you. or maybe he figures its too late to call you.
Besides that, dont over analyze it. just call him and ask how hes doin and carry out a conversation. no big deal. Best of Luck
2006-10-24 20:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by sometimes you just get lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iwould'nt worry about him calling until thursday or friday , or you can call on thurs. And about kissing on a first date ,some guys think if they don't its a sign of respect to you. so don't let it bother you. And have fun at the party......
2006-10-24 20:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by meerkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until Friday and then call to be sure the party was still on!!
2006-10-24 20:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes waiting 4 u 2 do ur part 2
2006-10-24 20:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait , if he doesn't call you by the fourth day...call him and see his reaction of your phone call. based on that you either love him or shove him....
2006-10-24 20:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to call him -- he has asked you out again
2006-10-24 20:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck,,,,,you might have to persue him
2006-10-24 20:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i thnk u should ask hm why he didnt invte u or ask him wut ur supposd 2 do
2006-10-24 20:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋