You go to the bar with your new guy. His ex is there and you know who she is. She does not bother you but what can you do?? Its weird!! So what would you do??? Do you give her dirty looks? Get mad at your guy for bringing you there when he knew she would be there?? Say something to her?? Write mean things about her in the bathroom?? (haha...j/k about that one!) But really?? And what if he keeps bringing me there??
2006-10-24 13:29:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He knows she'll be there though...she's friends with the owner and manager and that is where she goes when she goes out.
2006-10-24 13:37:54 · update #1
Suggest other places to go. Talk to him and let him know it makes you uncomfortable to be there. If he persists, he may just be trying to make her jealous and if that's the case, dump him. No matter what, keep your dignity. If she confronts you, smile and say hello then dismiss yourself. Hold his hand, but don't put on obvious displays. Anyone can see through these a mile away. Never be rude, this only makes you look bad. If she does, dismiss it as jealousy.
2006-10-24 13:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Pretty♥ ♥Kitty♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do exactly what you are doing now....nothing. Honey, as you get older, you are going to realize that the childish things we think of from time to time are simply better left at thoughts. There is no need to act on them. For all you know, this girl, could be someone nice and things just didn't work out between them. If there is no hostility, don't go and create some. There's enough drama in the world as it is. Sometimes the things we don't do, says alot about a person. In this case, it would. It would say that you are secure enough in yourself and your relationship with this guy to not have to stoop to childish games. I'm not saying this to be harsh, I'm saying it because if we were all as considerate as you, and actually put some thought into our actions, we might not be so mean to each other when there is no reason to be. I wish you well honey.
2006-10-24 13:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing....if she is not bothering you, giving you dirty looks, or totally not paying attention to you or your man.....then why are you going to go and start ****.......that is the lamest thing ever. Do you want this relationship to be over?? because if you aren't the mature one and just let it go, then he will see that and then think to himself 'Wow she really can't handle this relationship, if she can't even get over the fact that i have an ex.' No matter who you are with, everyone has an ex......some are crazy and some just don't care because they know they aren't right with that person. Just don't give it another thought and ignore her, if she know that her presence is going to bother you, then she will more then likely use that to her advantage.
2006-10-24 13:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throwing her dirty looks will just tell her that she threatens you, so the best thing to do is just smile. You don't want to cause bad blood where there is none. If it bothers you that you go to that bar, talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. It's not like he's going to the bar by himself when he knows she will be there, he brings you so it seems like he's not trying to hide anything but if it bothers you all you can do is talk to him.
2006-10-24 13:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let her get to u, if he had no idea she was going to be there then don't get in an argument over it.also it would probably give her satisfaction to see u get angry over it. shes an ex for a reason so just smile at her because ur the one hes with now!
2006-10-24 13:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by GENNY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a lady about it meaning he is with u for a reason u r his show prize.so r u worried about what she thinks all he is doing is rubbing the xx in the wrong direction s so dont let yr guard do either. stand yr ground stand by yr man...
2006-10-24 13:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by cheatersdevil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be trying to make her jealous or he could just like the place. I wouldn't worry I became friends with my partners exes' and it didn't worry me bumping into them but that's up to you.
2006-10-24 13:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by Abs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, get over it. You have him, she doesn't. And it is a free country, she can go to any public place she pleases. Especially if she is not bothering you.
2006-10-24 13:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dance my azz off let that whore know that even though she's there it doesn't effect me and my man.
2006-10-24 13:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by wannabefree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happend to me and my then boyfriend and now my husband. we would just sit there and make out to piss her fat azz off. that made her leave in a heartbeat evrytime.. good luck!!!
2006-10-24 13:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by donnies_sugarbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋