I got rejected today and everytime time I've asked a girl out they have this face like I told them that I was a alien or something and my self esteem is pretty low right now. Its not like im unattractive or something. Could I be doing something wrong, what can I do different.
2006-10-24 13:28:36 · 12 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its the way u approach them u gotta use a different approach with ladies sometime . they want someone who listen to them and respect them. you may be good looking and everything but u have to be more on a friendly side and polite when u talk to a lady make her feel comfortable talking to u dont look at her body and imagine how would she look without her clothes look at her face and respond to her talks make her feel nice and comfortable . do this and you will see what u were doing wrong its all bout presenting yourself in a nice way and a friendly way
2006-10-24 13:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by mrdeeds_1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either need to take a long hard look at yourself and see what keeps going wrong in your relationships.. example, does it always start off all great and u always giving 100% of yourself then u end up being a doormat and they lose respect for you and then the relationship falls apart? Are u to smothering? do u rush into a relationship and after only a few weeks start talking about love, marriage and children? Start looking at your relationships as a 3rd party, and talk to your close friends about why they think ur relationships fail.. if they are true friends they will be honest with u and point out things that perhaps ur doing, things that u keep repeating.. also look at they type of guys u tend to be attracted to .. you may not be making good choices in men, some women tend to pick unavailable men.. meaning they pick guys that there is zero way that the relationship could possibly go anywhere, they tend to pick men that are emotionally handicapped, or live to far away, or financially burdened, work to much, dont work enough, have financial obligations that become a priority over the relationship etc.. tend to chose little boys trapped in a mans body rather then picking a "real man" etc.. So really try to figure out where ur going wrong, what repeat mistakes perhaps ur making, and start changing your behavior or choices.. and remember love tends to happen when u least expect it, so stop rushing it and just let it happen on its own...
2016-05-22 11:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let that girl go, she wasn't right for you anyway. From now on, try being aloof for a change. To a girl, there's something very attractive about a guy who isn't chasing after them. Go about your business as if your life is busy. Girls will try to be noticed by you and then you can go ahead and show an interest, if you're interested that is.
2006-10-24 13:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by Yve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it's the fact that you ask women out *too* much. They don't feel special if they know that you're only going to another one if they deny you. Just take it easy and let women go for a while. Pick up an old hobby or something
2006-10-24 13:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by The All-Knowing Sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely sounds like you're being too blunt. get a feel for a girl, see if she flirts back with you when you hit on her. wait a couple weeks before actually asking her out so she can get to know you and develop a crush on you. REMEMBER THIS....girls are nothing like guys. We base our decisions on feelings, connections, etc.... NOT looks. (well, looks are sort of important, but not the MOST important thing!)
2006-10-24 13:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by CherBear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel that way. I have the same problem with the guys I'm attracted to and the guys that like me, just aren't the ones I would date. It's rough but eventually you'll find someone who wants to be there for you. I know how it feels. Just know that you aren't a bad person and you aren't alone.
2006-10-24 13:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by confused soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask different girls out. It would appear like the ones you are after think they are better than you.
2006-10-24 13:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by Plague92 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, do you know these girls? Have anything in common with them? Get to know them first and see if you are getting any flirty signals and then bust a move.
2006-10-24 13:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be trying too hard...just be friends with a girl and let it happen naturally.
2006-10-24 13:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by WxEtte 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all girls are the same yo. u gotta look harder, k . if u just ask her then. she might say no
2006-10-24 13:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by preciousϖℵ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋