If you love him let him go right...or anything worth fighting for is worth having?

Question

I love my boyfriend because:
Positives = we have a connection, he keeps me laughing, he's mature and responsible, he's considerate, he's intelligent, he's logical, he's gentle, he's with me, he tries to keep me happy, and we can fun even doing nothing.
But I'm having doubts because
Negatives:
He has a child (which means a baby mama too), he doesn't go to church, he's not a hopeless romantic, he's too realistic and cynical, he doesn't trust anybody, and he loves me but he's not inlove with me because he won't allow himself to be hurt, and I have to question his moralty sometimes, he's from the hood and I'm not.
We've been together for six months and I don't know if I should continue this relationship.....

Answer 1

you really need to just decide what outwieghs what in your positives and negatives...what's important to you in the long run? like are you going to want a family that goings to church on the weekends? etc...

Answer 2

I believe that if something is meant to be...it will happen. There are always going to be negatives and positives about someone. Maybe you should let him go and that might make him realize what he has with you. It's hard to do that, but it's a chance we have to take sometimes. If he does'nt come back to you, you will know there is someone better out there for you. Good luck!!

Answer 3

If he says he won't love you because he might get hurt, he doesn't deserve your love. You can't go on in a relationship without mutual love. Leave him, and he will come back if it's meant to be, if not, your better off. You deserve someone who will give all of themselves to you as well.

Answer 4

some decisions you have to make on your own!!

Answer 5

go with your gut