i really like this guy and i want to go out with him...but im afarid to ask him for the fear of rejection...can anyone help....is there any way to get him to ask me out..soon!!!??? please help...
2006-10-24 13:18:59 · 22 answers · asked by firserius 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he's afraid to ask YOU for fear of rejection. No one wants to get slammed, or end up looking like a fool, but at this rate, nobody will do anything and you'll end up kicking yourself around the block. Anything worth having will involve risk, and those afraid to fail end up with nothing. But why is "going out" so important? Why not chill, and enjoy...and encourage, his friendship. The rest will work itself out. But if you just can't stand it, then ask him. "Better to have loved and lost then never having loved at all."
2006-10-24 13:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that the fear of rejection is pretty harsh especially if you are ugly. But, anyway if you really like this guy you should ask him anyway because chances are he probably wont reject you and if he does it is because he is envolved already which you should look into before asking him. And just to be on the safe side you should flash him....Good luck!
2006-10-24 20:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. Or maybe if you're going out as a group with guys and girls invite him - it will less intimdating, then you can get to know him better. Try flirting OR how about giving him a HINT that he should ask you out. For example say something like, I really wanna see that new movie____ and see what he says.
Good luck and you go girl:)
2006-10-24 20:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have da same problem( but he is shy) so when you get help...help me two...but by the way i think you should get to talk to him an bring it up in when you two are talking. Or there's nothing wrong with a girl askin a boy out nd don't have the fear of rejection maybe things didn't have to happen that way or theirs something better instore for you in your future!!! hope i helped.
2006-10-24 20:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by dr'z mami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rejection is common w/most men [they have issues] of what their dream girl suppose to look like on a date ... have same problem i want to ask this gut out known 5yrs now but scared as a chicken to b too darn close. but on the other hand we both agreed on a wkend get together night w/others so it wouldnt feel awakard/then we left later. its a darn if i do or darn if i dont grab the bull by the horn lifes too short [rejeection] is all part of life.
2006-10-24 20:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by cheatersdevil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you have to be the one to ask cause maybe he's not sure and thinks you might say no and some guys find it attractive when girls ask them out if he says no it's okay he's not the only guy in the world there might be someone right there for you that you just haven't noticed
2006-10-24 20:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to start a conversation with him..see if he responds.. he may be shy ... if he responds positively to the "small talk" you could throw out something like "it's fun talking to you .. we should do it again sometime... maybe we could catch a movie sometime" .. he may respond positively..
.. You do have to take chances in life sometime if you want to get what you want...
2006-10-24 20:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by MeInUSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should try these tips 2 get him 2 like u:
1.) wear a body spray or perfume that has a scent of vanilla(guys r really attracted 2 that smell according 2 this test they did)
2.)eat apples guys r attractd 2 girls eating apples b cuz they think it makes their lips all shiny & it looks like they're not afraid 2 eat
GOD LUCK!
2006-10-24 20:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can eather go ahead and ask him or you can see if he will ask you.
But if he has not asked you and you just have to know then talk to him.
We all have to take the risk of being rejected, or not live.
2006-10-24 20:24:51 · answer #9 · answered by Preacher's Daughter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got the exact same situation as you! but let the guy know you like him,talk to him,greet him and stuff that way the guy knows you like him and if he likes you back hell ask you out or something or ask a mutual friend to ask him what he thinks of you,good luck!
2006-10-24 20:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by XZELSOR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋