I really, really like this guy and I know he likes me. The problem is he's about 10 years older and I know he is a bit unsure about this age difference. We've hooked up and slept together but I'm not sure if he wants to take it further. Should I just leave it? There's another guy who likes me but I'm not really that interested and he wants to go out but he's not that exciting. What should I do?
2006-10-24 13:15:42 · 8 answers · asked by oh_scheiss 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My wife is 14 years youger than me. We've been together 10 years and are very happy.
Nuff said.
2006-10-24 13:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time. Age difference can be a issue with people. Slow things down a bit and get to know each other a little better as people the age you each are. Then he can see your maturity level and whether or not it's compatible with his.
2006-10-24 20:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by eehco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old are you? Ask him if he wants to take it further, if he says no then you have your answer. You could just be someone that he likes hooking up with. you don't want to waste your time on someone like that.
2006-10-24 20:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by mostgenuine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sit around waiting on the guy that you slept with! Go out with the other one if you want to or someone else! HAVE FUN!
2006-10-24 20:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with some guys, once they sleep with you, then they dont want you.
if the guy still calls you and says he likes you after you have had sex with him, then he probably does have feelings for you, even if he doesnt show them like you want him to.
i would advise you to tell him how you feel about the situation, then see where it goes from there.
2006-10-24 20:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly have a connection with this guy, then age shouldn't matter - unless you're really young. Then it might be illegal.
if not, then definitely give your relationship a chance.
2006-10-24 20:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by lovemesweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are wasting your time with the older guy.tell him to **** or get off the pot. word to the wise dont just hook up with guys,...they dont respect you.
2006-10-24 20:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by Lidy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, how old are you?
If you are eg 15, then someone else.
If you are eg 25, then you could make it work.
2006-10-24 20:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋