i think she must have had a nervous break down or something, how should i ask her cause its killing me?
2006-10-24 13:05:23 · 14 answers · asked by kat 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
It really isn't any of your business.
2006-10-24 13:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by JB 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is no proper way to ask such a thing...you have no right to ask anything so personal of anyone. You might ask yourself why you want to know so badly....it might be because you're just a bit nosy.
If you want to know because you genuinely care about her and want to help, then be her friend and show compassion. But, it is NEVER appropriate or within the boundaries of good manners to ask these things. If she wants you (or anyone else) to know her personal issues, she'll volunteer that information.
2006-10-25 11:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rembrandt11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have NO idea what CAN happen to a person in their lifetime..someone can have a car accident, or lose their parents in an instance, somone can lose their job, or someone can become very ill..(by the way) - these things come without notice..
so, my advise is please be patient with this person afterall you dont know what they have been threw...(after all you young)..
2006-10-24 21:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by Winters child 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. It's really none of your business. If she wants to tell you after she gets to know you better, she will. You could actually be in danger of being sued and/or fired for harassment if you question her.
2006-10-24 20:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose you could ask her something mild like how things are going and see if she volunteers any information. Mostly work on your own life.
2006-10-24 22:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really none of your business. IF you dont like her then stay away from her as best you can without being mean.
2006-10-24 20:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't just do your work and make sure you doing your best perfomance on the job
2006-10-25 00:13:24 · answer #7 · answered by Nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rude to ask someone that. Ask your coworkers and gossip abotu it lol
2006-10-25 01:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by JoAnne H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about doing something nice for her,
you never know what tragedies a person has suffered.
2006-10-24 22:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by Moma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to your supervisor and express your concern that she is making your place of work an uncomfortable one
2006-10-24 21:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by dzjoni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, it is none of your business. If you feel that it is, be upfront and honest and simply ask her. "Not to offend you, do you have mental problems?"
2006-10-24 20:07:48 · answer #11 · answered by nonametomention 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋